I don't like my mothers day present...

[gymnasticsmom68]

And I can't imagine when I've seen a such judgemental nasty tone from a DIS poster...but wait...it was on the Billy Joel thread recently...same poster ...and not the first time....what a surprise!

wah wah wah, save it for somebody less judgemental than me. If she is so dissatisfied with her flowers and candy that her husband went out and bought for her that she has to actually THROW THEM AWAY (OMG!!!!!!!), you bet your bippy that I'll come along and call her selfish and self involved. Poor her, my sympathy runs deep!!

 

[phillybeth]

Send that single rose and candy bar to me. I don't get anything for Mother's Day because I am not a mother yet, and might NEVER be. You are going to enjoy a nice Disney vacation with your grandchildren, I don't even have a child to take. Spend a few days in my shoes and be grateful for what you have.

 

[gymnasticsmom68]

Poohlovr don't worry about Gymnasticsmom she seems to be like this all the time.

I have to wonder what she's like 'all the time' if this is how she acts when somebody buys her a gift.

 

[marymrg]

ez - only you know how your dh would react if you asked to maybe exchange the fountain. Otherwise, is there a way to make it fit better in the room by landscaping it a bit? (plants, dishgardens etc.) It
seems to me that the hurt caused by "not liking it" might be worse than just accepting it for what it was meant to be - a gift from the heart. On the other hand, if he's really laid back and you phrased it just right, he might go along with an exchange (say for a different type of fountain) I was the recipient of a really beautiful bracelet one year and my internal reaction was similar to yours. It just wasn't the type that I would ever buy. I never let on though because my dh was so excited about giving it to me and said how much thought and time he put into it. Once in awhile, I even wear it.
To the other poster, I would be so touched if dh gave me a single yellow rose, a card and some Reese's peanut butter cups! (all my favorites) Maybe I could drop hints for next year for Valentine's Day! How about you buy your dh the disney dollars for father's day or just give him a card that says something about his gift is the trip. I don't know you or your situation, but it sounds like you'll have to ignore the snide remarks about your Disney planning and try to have a really magical trip. Take him to see Wishes!

 

[Stepharoonie!]

Poohlovr, I can understand why you were upset since your husband asked what you wanted for Mother's Day and got you something completely different. But, be happy that your husband was thinking of you and brought you a flower and candy. Even if it's a single red rose (which is an outstanding symbol of love) and a silly candy bar, remember that he was thinking of you and loves you.

Also, be very grateful that your daughter is coming over to make dinner with you....I didn't get to spend the day with my daughter My ex wouldn't let me.

I'm sorry that your Mother's Day didn't turn out as planned...here's a in hopes that you feel better soon.

To the original OP....I would tell my husband that while I appreciate the gift, I'd rather return it and get something a little smaller for the porch. He may understand that since you just had it finished, you may not want to "clutter" it up right away. Or tell him you'd rather sock that money away from a vacation for the two of you!

 

[Pin Wizard]

Mickey527!

I would keep the fountain. You never know...some day you may appreciate it!

My husband passed away over 11 years ago. Back then I didn't exactly appreciate the flowers he would bring home on occasion from 7-Eleven or some corner store. I wanted the real stuff from the florist. (Not mother's day, just whenever.) But you know what? I would love his flowers from 7-Eleven now!!!!! Appreciate any gift your husband gives you!

Today my 11 year old gave me a tile that they painted with a picture at school and a card. I LOVE THEM! I wouldn't trade them for anything. Last year his 4th grade teacher in FL didn't have the kids do anything for the moms. I really missed it! DS doesn't have his dad to take him to pick something out. So this year I will let his teacher (in VA) know how much I appreciate her doing this!!

 

[WebmasterPete]

Rather than delete this thread, I'm just going to close it, so that people can see what kind of nastiness will get you banned from the site. Here's the deal. You don't have to like with the OP wrote, and when that happens, move on to another thread and keep your nasty comments to yourself. Choose to get nasty and you won't be welcomed here. It really is that simple.

Pete