I dislike my sons

[bambii]

pre kindergarden teacher. It makes me cringe. okay for Halloween, they had a fall party and I was room mother and that was fine but I called her and talk to her about what kind of games, and I asked her what time the party was and she told me 2:00 okay. no problem. I arrived a 1:45 to set up and she told me we changed the party to 1:30. Kind of hurt my feelings but i let in slide.


The other day I went to get my boys (the other one is in thrid grade.) out of class early cause of a doctors appt. well my youngest was outside Playing and it was a little chilly and his jacket wasnt zipped and he gets colds really easy and has astma. I have brought it up to her before.

I miss my sons teacher from last year. but we thought it would be best if him and his brother were in the same school, my oldest has ADHD/OCD and deleyed in his development, and last year he was having problems so they sent him to another regular school but has the resourses to help him. ( I dont know why he wasnt put in that school when we first came to the district. 2 years ago)

Today he came home and told me he got hurt in PE and he had a bruise on his hip and no note or phone call from the teacher this is the second time.

She is new to the district and I just dont know what to do.

His teacher from last year I always new what was going on. she always sent notes home and her class always was so orginized this class in in total shambles.

I dont know what to do ????????? HELP has anyone esle felt that way...

 

[Puffy2]

There is homeschool - I do this for one child of mine, and probably will start the other next year.

 

[Pooh93]

Can you talk to the principal or are any of the other parents experiencing the same types of problems? I'm sorry for your son. As a parent when our child hurts, we hurt. {{HUGS}}

 

[damo]

Every child goes through years when their teacher is not the greatest. It is sad though when this happens in the younger grades when teachers have such an incredible impact on the family. Hang in there!

 

[RoqueC]

Wow, when I first saw the title, I thought that you just didn't like your sons. Anyway, I'd go ahead and talk to the priniciple during the break, if possible.

 

[honeywolf7]

I was with RoqueC when I first saw the title...I was wondering how you could possibly dislike your sons. I'd definitely talk to the principal and if that doesn't get anywhere I'd take it higher.

 

[Pin Wizard]

Teachers are different from each other. And the older the kids get, the less their hands are held. I can't imagine a teacher trying to run around making sure each kids' jacket is zipped. If a child gets hurt, that's one thing. A report should be made. But other things aren't quite that important.

 

[disneyjunkie]

Originally posted by bambii
The other day I went to get my boys (the other one is in thrid grade.) out of class early cause of a doctors appt. well my youngest was outside Playing and it was a little chilly and his jacket wasnt zipped and he gets colds really easy and has astma. I have brought it up to her before.

I have 20 students in my pre-k class. It is impossible to run behind all of them to make sure they keep their coats zipped up while playing outside. Of course when we see their coats open we tell them to close up. As soon as they are away from us they unzip them again.
Have you spoken to your son about keeping his coat closed when he's outside?

 

[disykat]

Is pre-kindergarten something all the kids go to in your state? Don't get me wrong, because I understand there's probably more to your discomfort with this teacher than a bruise and an unzipped jacket (I'd be upset about the party change with no call to the room mom!), but maybe you're not ready to let your son be away from you for that long yet. I'm not saying this as an insult - I kept very close tabs on my kids when they were younger than kindergarten. Even in kindergarten they were only gone from me for a few hours.

I'm a big public school advocate (or private school - just trying to say I'm not a big homeschooling fan), but for very young kids there's simply no way they can provide the ratio of caregivers/child that some parents are comfortable with at this age.

I guess I'm not understanding how old he is if he's already been in school two years and not in kindergarten yet.

 

[bambii]

since he was 2 and now he is four I love him going. it gives me a chance to get some stuff done. Im South Dakota you cant start kindergarden until the age of five. And when he is in kindergarden I want him to go all day he could use it, but they dont offer it. my oldest went to kindergarden all day but that was in a different district.

THe class is for special kids and regular kids, but mainly are special ed. and he is olny three months behind his peers. Pre K or Pre school isnt required he but it is are choose.

The jacket upset me because he catches cold easy, and when it is cold and windy he has troulbe breathing.

I dont have the patients to home school, and i believe kids need other kid to thrive.

i just cant stand the teacher she seems like see isnt cooking on all fours. or the elevator doesnt quite reach the top.