I could Use some Prayers Please. Update pg 8

[happybratpack]

I wish there were something to say to make things better. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

 

[NJOYURLIFE]

 

[Kitty 34]

Sherry, I can't imagine how hurtful it would be to lose a child.

Please except all my hugs and prayers and PD.

 

[kimkarli]

Sherry,

So sorry for your tragic loss. Words are probably of little comfort, but our thoughts & prayers are with you. May God bless you!

 

[pinkgalYall]

Just know that your daughter is watching down on you, and know that she is always with you, she is probably with you more now then she was before, now she never leaves your side. If you feel you have no reason to pull through, then think of your son and how much he needs you.

God Bless You

 

[wdw4us]

I didn't read all your situation only parts of it. Now I have read your post and just want to sit and cry with you. I have a close friend who lost her son in a car accident almost a year ago. I didn't know what to say to her because our children are about the same age. I could not imagine losing a child and spoke to her in letters and notes - it was easier for me. She is managing but I'm sure there are days that are harder than others.

A very close friend lost her husband a year ago to cancer. All these people dying why did God choose them? They are all wonderful people as I'm sure your daughter was. Too young to leave us. When my mother died on Christmas day in 1985 I could not understand how god could be so mean and then I thought about how wonderful my mom was with my children. The best grandmother you could have. A great mom too. I know god needed her for something special and we would just have to get along without her. Whenever I hear of someone passing on I pray to my mom to help them along and guide them through the next journey. I have prayed to my mom on behalf of your daughter. She will take her hand and be the best mom to her. My mom LOVED Disney especially Epcot. They will talk Disney and share the love of the parks. I never went to Disney with my mom but your daughter will have that chance until WE get there to have some fun with them.

You son needs you - and you need him. Take care of yourself, your daughter will be just fine now - she's got Grammy Begin to take real good care of her.

Wipe your tears, fake a smile and soon that smile with be a real one, it may take some time but we're here to help you through it all.

denise

 

[Snowysmom]

I can't even imagine what you are going through. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

 

[faith]

I wish I knew what to say...some words of comfort for you. Will definitely say a prayer for you all. Stay strong. Hugs, from faith.

 

[VanniGirl]

You and yours are in my thoughts and prayers

 

[Tinkerbells mom]

We will definately be praying for you and your family. I have a daughter and I just could not even imagine the pain you are going through. Please take care and let us know how you are doing.

 

[Kama89]

Sherry, I'm at a complete loss for words. They all seem so inadequate. But please know you and your son have been in my thoughts and prayers.

 

[Goofy22]

Sherry,
I don't know you and I feel like we have a real connection! I think myself or shall I say my family has been through something so close to what you have been through! I know almost where you are coming from! If you see at the bottom of my signature it says IN LOVING MEMORY OF MY DEAR NEPHEW TYLLER! He was like a son to me he was with me so often as my sister is a single mother and worked crazy shifts! Let me tell you a little about our story! On January 21st, 2004 I lost my dear nephew he was 6! and I almost lost another Nephew Josh at the time 10! My 14 yr old niece at the Time woke up to find that there was a fire in the kitchen of their house tried to wake her mothers boyfriend for help to get the boys and couldn't(mom was at work) by the time she called 911 the fire was so bad she couldn't get to the boys! It took awhile for the rescue members to get them out do to the intensity and the heat! My Nephew Tyller was burnt so bad there was no help for him! He was burnt over 90% of his body then there was Josh he was burnt over 45% of his body! He was also prononced dead at the scene and somehow someway brought back to life! He was in the burn center on a respirator and everything it was the worst experience of my life they expected him to be there for near a year and for some unknown miracle only a month later he made such a turn around he was aloud home! The burn care was horrible he screamed and screamed and screamed he also had to wear a pressure suit up til this past winter!They used something on him called biobrain to help the skin heel! The burns are still very well visible he still has to be douced in sunblock no matter when he goes out and has to wear a hat! He is now 12! And he has his good days and bad days! He often asks like you why am I not with TY? Why didn't TY live? So I say to him as hard as it is to accept that Tyller is in a better place and look at how bad you were burned tyller was burned alot worse and how would ty have handled hisself and how others now would look at him! (I won't go into details but he was burnt so bad that it was impossible for him to live) And I know how I feel and he was my nephew there is a big whole and it doesn't get easier you just learn to accept them being in a better place and learn how to deal with the life changes the tragedy brung to your family! If you would like to PM me that is fine I am willing to talk and it is still hard so I do know somewhat what you are feeling although I do not know the loss of my own child although he was close to it! If you need someone I'm here! My prayers and thoughts are with you! I even strayed from prayers and all for a few years I felt why would god do this I did blame god for a long time! But now I am learning to understand things and deal with them differently! Keep you're son close !!I know it will be hard because you're daughter is gone but he will have issues and you may not realize it until a year or so later as I did with my son thru all the grief etc.. he seemed like he bounced back so easily it wasn't until he started school that we realized there were bigger problems!!! Tyller and Brandon were Best Friends together almost 24 /7 and they were cousins and he showed no signs of anything until the first Fire Drill at school then as we were coming to grips with things it was like it hit all over and we had to go back to square one! So my best advice is even if youre son seems like he doesn't need it please still get him help as you already said you were because he just may not want to upset you! That is what we found to be my sons problem he didn't want mommy to cry! Sorry my story was so long but I justwanted you to know there is someone else out there that has had the same type of tragedy from what I am gathering from posts here I don't know what actually happened but it sounds pretty close!

Keep us posted on youre support meetings they will be good for you! I find now talking about him helps me deal with it better especially on anniversaries and birthdays and holidays and disney dyas we did it all together! Also my advice as hard as it will be w/o Macy goto Disney she will be there with you in Spirit and you will know it! I'm sure she would want you to go! That will be one of your biggest hurdles and once you get past that it will help you to deal with the others ahead!

I'm here if you need to talk!

 

[Ladybugsy]

(((HUGS))) From reading your posts I realize that you are a very strong woman with great faith. God knows your pain, and he'll be there for you. He's not punishing your or testing you, he loves you and will help you daily to function and eventually find some happiness in life. Celebrate your baby girl. Find something that will make you feel good about the time you spent together. Just off the top of my head, how bout a leave a legacy tile at EPCOT? I bet she would have loved that.

I heard someone say that the only way to get over grief is to grieve. It's a process. I know it's hard now, but you will find joy again. If in nothing but remembering what an impact you made in a beautiful childs life.
Prayers going up for your quick recovery as well as your emotions. (((HUGS)))

 

[binny]

You continue to be in my prayers.

May God grant you peace through this difficult time.

 

[maryssasmom]

I am so sorry Sherry, prayers and hugs for you....

 

[tnkbl]

Sherry,
From another Razorback to you, you are in my prayers. I was going to vent about my DD4 who is over tired and missind Daddy who's away on business. But how can I.
I am so sorry for you loss, I can not imagine what you are going through. Take time to greeve your loss and then rejoice in what you have. I will keep you and your family in my prayers!
Sherri

 

[NJOYURLIFE]

 

[bettyann29]

Sherry.. I dont know what to say to make you feel better but wanted to know you are in my prayers..

 

[Otto's Doll]

Sherry, I am so sorry for all you are going through. May God bless you and your family, and be your support and comfort. Hugs to you.

 

[Nite0wl71]

I have no words to say but I am so sorry

When I was 12 my sister who was 7 passed away unexpectedly on Christmas Eve. To this day I still don't know how my mom did it, celebrating Christmas for the rest of us (I also have 4 brothers). She was a stong woman and I know having the rest of us helped her.

From what I have read you seem like a strong woman also, let your son and Jamey help you. You can all lean on each other