Thanks for all of your replies. I didn't throw *everything* away, but I did throw out the meat -- it was all *warm* and that made me very uncomfortable. I didn't want to risk my kids' health by serving "iffy" meat.
I also threw away all of the yogurt, pudding and pasta salads that were on the top shelf. Because they were close to the light bulb, they were actually *hot*!
I tossed the older gallon of milk, and kept the other one in there. I thought if I could get it cold again, I'd see what it tasted like. But here it is, over 8 hours later, and the stuff in the fridge still isn't COLD!!
I am so sorry this happened to you.

Two years ago this scenario was ME with my deep freezer, and everything had to go.
But Great Job with making the hard decision to get rid of the stuff!

You are smart and safe to throw out those things.
I teach food safety and the problem with meat is that bacteria grow rapidly in warm temps and also produce toxins.
You might be able to kill bacteria through cooking, but not the toxins.
That is why it is not safe to cook the meat and eat it.
The toxins are not killed or diminished by cooking, they are still present and can make you extremely sick.
The only thing worse than losing all that food
is having to pay for medical attention or lost wages because your family got sick from eating that food.
When in doubt, remember that bacteria double every 20 minutes at room temperature.
1 bacteria can become 4,096 bacteria in as little as 4 hours, and 32,768 in 5 hours.
As few as 10 bacteria can make you sick.
Some families build up a resistance to certain bacteria, or have simply been lucky so far.
The reason why native Mexicans don't get sick from drinking their water and we do is the same reason why some previous posters don't get sick from behaviors like drinking milk that has sat out for hours.
Food borne illness is more common than people think.
According to the CDC, each year roughly 1 in 6 Americans (or 48 million people) gets sick, 128,000 are hospitalized, and 3,000 die of foodborne diseases.
It's better to be safe than sorry.
You can always find out more about safe food handling at:
http://www.ianrpubs.unl.edu/epublic/live/ec446/build/ec446.pdf
http://food.unl.edu/web/meatproducts/preparation
http://food.unl.edu/web/safety/preparation-and-handling