I Called the Groomer. She Admits it!!

DawnCt1 said:
I honestly do not think that she would have the money to pay for the vet bills. It will be a financial hit as it is for her to return the $50. for Annie. She is a jerk, a complete idiot but I know her ex doesn't pay child support, the house she is living in is in disrepair, and I have a real problem hurting her as much as she has hurt us. I know that sounds cowardly but I am praying that she has learned an important lesson.

Then I can understand you not wanting to go for blood with this person financially, but to not report it and to have her very possibly do this to another dog, in my opinion, means that you'd partially share the blame if that does indeed happen. Sorry to be so blunt--I'm really not trying to make you feel worse. I know that you must feel horrible for what she put your dog through. This lady needs a new line of work for sure.
 
I googled dog groomer abuse and this was the first article that came up. It's shocking and sad. :(

GROOMING OR TORTURE ?

The following is a message that I received from a reader of Purrrs & Stuff. This message appears exactly as it was originally written. I am withholding the name of the writer for legal reasons.
Please read this carefully; and always keep it in your mind when you are looking for a groomer for your own precious furbabies.
Thank you.

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Hi,
I worked in a grooming shop last summer and was shocked, and horrified at the general treatment of cats and dogs left in grooming shops for a full day or half day of beauty.

Most customers met with the shop owner or another significant staff member (manager) and felt they could trust these people with their beloved pets, their babies.

It was purely accidental that I landed this job in the first place. I had taken my chihuahua (my baby) to a shop to have his nails clipped. It was Christmas Eve and the rush was on. When I entered the shop, a woman with a cigarette hanging from her lower lip "greeted" me. I told her I just needed nails clipped. She attempted to jerk Boomer out of my arms but I knew from experience that he needed to be held. She was very hesitant about letting me enter the grooming area. After being in there I knew why.

She was gathering the necessary tools and I noticed she had jeans on that were so dirty they were slick and shiny. She had dried blood on her jeans and on her arm. There were 2 very large, unrestrained dogs in the grooming area. The floor was filthy as were the work stations. She grabbed Boom's paw and began snipping. He has never liked having this done so he was squirming a bit but she was able to continue. She nipped a quick and he pulled his paw back, she then hit him on his head with the clippers and left a knot on this tiny little apple head. I proceeded to leave the facility and she demanded payment and then had nerve to request a tip "since it is Christmas". She got nothing but the image of my back leaving her establishment! We made it through Christmas with lots of attention poured on Boomer and frequent ice packs to his little nogen. The vet said he was OK. I was ridden with guilt.

After I had gotten my nerve up, I called the vet and asked for a recommendation of another groomer who might be more animal friendly. He gave the name of one shop and nothing but high praises for the shop and the owner. So I fought my hesitancy and ventured into the shop. I explained what had happened the last time and she told me of other horror stories she had been told by other clients. Out of the blue she asked if I would be interested in learning the grooming trade since I was so passionate about animals. I told her I had to think about it. So 3 months later, I am soaking wet, got bubbles up to my elbows and being covered with dog kisses everyday. I loved it!!!

The image, however, began to loose its sparkle. I witnessed dogs being cursed at, threatened verbally with physical injury, and physical abuse of tugging, pulling, jerking, and pushing while on the grooming table. I am fully aware that discipline is needed in getting some dogs to cooperate. I witnessed animal abuse everyday. I was a bather. I got the wet part of the job and as i said earlier, I loved it. We had the hand held blow dryers that produce a strong flow of air and are very noisy. This frightened many dogs. If one of "my dogs" indicated any fear, I would towel dry them as much as possible and place them in a drying cage with a dryer placed on the door. This was quieter, less forceful but took much longer for the coats to dry thoroughly. But on many occasions, I have seen a dog held by his ears or testicles to perform the hand held blow dry. After all "time is money".

During the summer months we were really busy. We bathed dogs from 7:30 am to 2 or 3 pm. Another part of our job was to walk and toilet the dogs. Many days this was not possible due to the number of baths and grooms needed. Many of the dogs refused to use the cage so they just had to suffer.

Some of the dogs had been dropped off as early as 7 am and if the owner didn't get there until 5 or 6 pm they were really suffering. If the animal peed or pooped on the grooming table it was yelled at, smacked with a cloth, jerked off the table and then taken back to the cage for a bather to clean. We tried very hard to work it out so one of us could walk the dogs before lunch and the others take on extra baths but the shop owner did not approve of the schedule changes.

The poor kitties were no better. They were spared the agony of the hand held dryer but were placed in a small 2x3 cage with 2 cage dryers on them after their bath. NONE of them were given a litter box. The drying room held 35 cages and we had an exhaust fan that was graded for a residential bathroom. The heat in the drying room was intolerable at times.

We (the bathers) strived to keep fresh water in the cages for the dogs and cats due to stress and heat. Many times during the day, an animal would be removed from the drying room by a groomer and taken to the grooming table then returned to a different cage with no water. We had many dogs that would come in with skin conditions. Some contagious, some not. Again a groomer would remove the dog from the cage for grooming and return it to another cage. If the bather didn't get in to change the towel in the original cage, the groomer would place another dog on a towel that had been bedding for a dog with a skin condition. The risk of contaminating or spreading infection was very high.

This particular shop also had a kennel. The kennel was thoroughly cleaned and disinfected everyday and then any waste or puddles were spot cleaned later in the day. No consistent monitoring for animals that did not pee or poo in the kennel was provided. If the pet owner did not pay for play periods outside or for outdoor potty breaks, the animal had to suffer if no one noted whether he had peed or pooped.

I am asking all pet owners, PLEASE, make spot checks on your groomers. If possible stay with your animal, at tub side, at grooming table, wherever, IT MAKES A DIFFERENCE!!! Take a tour of the facility before making an appointment. ASK QUESTIONS about potty breaks, water, etc. If you feel comfortable with the shop, don't stop watching for signs. As soon as you leave the shop does your animal pee for an extended period of time. Does she poop immediately. Does he have diarrhea for the rest of the evening. Did he drink a great deal of water when he got to his dish. We are trusting our animals with these people and are paying them good money to take care of babies for a few hours or even a full day. Take your own towel or blankets for cage bedding to prevent contracting skin or other infectious conditions that could cause your pet unnecessary suffering. If your animal eats during the day, bring him a baggie of food to munch on, otherwise he will get none. Watch your animal for reluctance that worsens over time on going to the shop. Watch for mood or behavioral changes. Check your animal for sore areas, tender areas, whelts under their coats.

What can we do to cut down on this? Talk to your community leaders, state law makers and request them to look into state regulations regarding the ethical treatment of animals by groomers and vets and any other pet service providers. If you have witnessed abuse or even suspect abuse, contact your local SPCA and report it to the Better Business Bureau in your area. Also alert your vet and have him check your pet for suspected injuries.

I am sure this is happening all over America. We cry at the stories of idiots who will pull a dog from a vehicle and toss him into oncoming traffic so he can be killed in front of the owner. We need to cry for our own babies if you do not know what transpires during the course of a day in a grooming shop, a pet sitting service, a kennel or any other pet service facility.

I close with one final question, would you allow your child to be treated in this manner? To some of us, our pets are our children and we need everyone's voice to help protect them.

Sincerely, (name withheld)
 
Tigger&Belle said:
Then I can understand you not wanting to go for blood with this person financially, but to not report it and to have her very possibly do this to another dog, in my opinion, means that you'd partially share the blame if that does indeed happen. Sorry to be so blunt--I'm really not trying to make you feel worse. I know that you must feel horrible for what she put your dog through. This lady needs a new line of work for sure.

I understand what you are saying. In this case, I am not even sure she is licensed. I never checked because the word of mouth references were so good and she always seemed so good with my dogs. I have known her for 12 years.
I think it would have to be a police report, it would end up my word against hers; "unintentional vs. intentional". I think it would go absolutely no where and end up as a big mess.
 
I would report her to animal control. She is a monster!!!!! I'm sorry that she is not well off, but she should have thought about that before she abused your baby. And my guess is that your dog is probably not the first. Yeah, your conversation might straighten her up for a while, but it will wear off. Some time in the future she will get another dog in that doesn't play by her games and will get the same "lovely" treatment as your precious dog.

I would speak up for my dog if I were in your shoes, they can't speak for themselves. They can only look forward (or not) to the next visit to the groomer.

:grouphug: to you as you deal with this situation.
 

Dawn,

Years ago I ttok Bucky to a lady who did a great job and seemed nice. Then one day I walked him in and she was behind a curtain, screaming her head off at a dog and she sounded like a witch! I stood there with him in my arms just shocked at what I heard. Then she came around the corner and was all "Miss Nice" and I told her something had come up and he couldn't be done today and I left as fast as I could!

The girl I take Nicki to grooms in plain sight and is great with all kinds of animals. My BIL is a vet right next store and he used to worked for a vet who had a groomer who would sedate the animals before grooming them w/o people knowing!! Ugh! You have to be able to trust the groomer with your furbaby. Because if anyone intentionally hurts my furbaby, there'll be hell to pay.
I hope your dog gets better. It is so hard when they are old.
 
Now that I think about it...doesn't PetsMart groom behind glass so you can watch??? I wonder if that is better?
 
The Mystery Machine said:
Now that I think about it...doesn't PetsMart groom behind glass so you can watch??? I wonder if that is better?

Yes, they do. There might also be a back area where they are kept when not grooming (and that might differ from store to store), but the grooming is done behind glass.
 
Disney Doll said:
When she got the electric clippers and went to do the part around his ears, he snapped at her. I htink the noise scared him, he was young. He didn't bite, he just snapped. She jumped back, and decided to finish his ears using scissors, which was fine. But a comment she made stayed with me forever after that...she said "if he had been at a groomers and done that, they'd have knocked him off the table and hung him by the lead for a minute to teach him a lesson".

OMG!!! I am already SO paranoid about my sister leaving her dog at the groomer's all the time. Stuff like this is what I am afraid of. Who the heck knows how the groomers really treat the dog while she's there??? UGH!!
 
this thread is so hard to read. But I have to comment. Don't just think because it is PetSmart, "behind glass" that they are safe. We know of one dog that was abused in a way that is not fit to discuss on a family board at a local PetSmart.

After this thread, I think I want some dog clippers. I am sick to my stomach.

Many prayers for Chelsea. keep us posted on her progress.
 
That is horrible!!! But doesn't suprise me.

A month before we had to put her to sleep, my 13 yo persian was at the groomer and when I picked her up she had staples in her belly! What??? The stupid groomer had cut her loose skin so bad it required stitches and then did not bother to call me or DH but took her to the local Aid to Animals and had her cut stapled. She didn't think it inappropriate at all but I was mortified and I still wince to think about it and how bad I felt that it happened to my poor Kara.
 
I visited PetCo yesterday and spoke with the groomer. She didn't seem to have much of a personality but seemed okay. She was grooming a large Ger. Shepard who seemed happy. When she walked back to him, he kissed her. I have also been given the telephone number of one who comes to the house. I haven't spoken to her yet. I don't know how much she does in the house or in her van. I heard the dogs she does 'look wonderful'. Looking wonderful is NOT important to me. Annie will continue to need to be groomed. I can't imagine that I will let Chelsea ever be groomed. Yesterday, she didn't have such a great day. She would only eat scrambled egg, and some of the "sausage type roll, but loved a bit of ice cream she had last night., didn't seem interested in walking, and slept quite a bit. This morning she was awake when I got up. She drank a good bit of water, and I heated up some canned dog food, which she wouldn't look at before and she loved it. She didn't eat a lot but she ate. Today she walked from the family room to the kitchen to her water dish. We have to hold the dish up for her but I am going out to buy those dishes that are elevated so she won't have to bend over. I have been hand feeding her so far. She is very alert today. What is encouraging to me is that she remembered where her dish was. She knows when she has to go to the bathroom and squats. When this first happened, she got restless just before and peed where she was laying. Its very cold here in Ct today but I am waiting for the sun beam to appear in the kitchen and I will move her there. She LOVES lying in the sun.
 
So sorry this happened to your doggie....I hope she recovers fully!
 


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