Actually, I'm feeling the same way.
DC-ed in the seat before the Aqua Inferno game... ten minutes before closing. It took me forever to get in, then I can't get back in.
I am frustrated that VMK treats us this way and I, for a second, thought about quitting.
Now, really, when you think about it, does the Stitch hat really matter? It's just a blue fuzzy cap that you may get in the future.
People are getting Infernos so it does happen. I know I'll get it eventually, so what does a couple weeks matter?
Just give it some time, and some patience. I know it is hard now, but after a good rest you'll be okay and love the game again.