Actually, I have stayed offsite without a rental car before and it was fine, but it was quite a few years ago, so I'm not going to imagine that my experience is representative of what it's like now. I'll put it this way, last time I stayed offsite, AK didn't exist yet, and the time before that, MGM had just opened.

(wow, that's going way back!) Now that the parks are larger and offer more attractions and get more visitors, it's probably harder than it used to be to stay offsite.
I'll definitely agree with you, it's not the best way to experience Disney, but if the choice is between staying offsite, or no Disney at all, I'll definitely stay offsite rather than go without! We did Universal twice last year without a car, and had no problems with the hotel shuttles. We had to get up early and get our butts on line to make sure we got on the shuttle, but it wasn't a big deal as we're early risers anyway. To save our sanity, we put some money aside in the budget to take a cab back from the parks, and we'll do the same for Disney.
If we could rent a car, we would, because I agree about the convenience, but, it's just not in the cards. I have driven before but I decided to take myself off the road before something else, like a car accident, did it for me, and it's been long enough that I don't think I'd pass the vision check now even if I wanted to. DH is just learning to drive (he's one of those diehard New Yorkers) and I'd feel very uneasy on unfamiliar roads in Orlando where the roads are crowded with people, many with children in their cars. We probably could push it and get his license before the trip, but the stress isn't worth it.
It sounds weird that we're adults and don't drive, but in Manhattan you rarely have to, and many people we know our own age don't have licenses or ever really plan to get them.
The Lynx sounds like it'll be a good backup plan in case the shuttles are too packed or don't work with our schedule, and we can definitely hop in a cab if we need to. It's a splurge, but we can swing it, especially since we're not big eaters and don't plan on doing a lot of shopping in the parks, either.
I figure, between the shuttles, the Lynx, and taxi service as a backup, we'll get to the parks okay. Yeah, we just have to be willing to be flexible and patient because it will take up a bit more time, but ya know, I'm one of those people that is just plain happy to be wherever they are, and sitting on a bus watching the palms and billboards roll by beats sitting in New York being cold and wishing I were at Disney.
Thanks for the bus info- that's a big help- I had seen that site before and totally forgot to bookmark it.
