I guess I have to say something since my dh is suffering from back problems right now, going on a yr.
He may look fine however he is not fine. Unless you have access to his medical files, I cannot see making a judgement on the condition of his back based on what you see.
Just because he is doing these things, doesn't mean he SHOULD BE doing these things. YMMV, I just had to throw my 2 cents in.
I agree with this. I know someone who has fybromyalgia (sp). She has been on SS disability for about 5 years now. Her situation is so debilitating sometimes. Not all the time. Sometimes she is not in pain, not experiencing migraines etc. Those are the times you see her in the yard playing with her grandkids. On the surface she looks totally normal. Our dd's went to school together, were in marching band together. Sometimes, she would be writhing in pain in the back seat on the way home before she could take her pain meds. She didn't like to take them when she was going somewhere that involved her full mental capacity or to be there for her dd. Neighbors who didn't know her situation, but would see her on one of her good days playing in the yard with her grandkids would always make comments.
I guess the moral of the story is that not being a dr and not knowing what the medical file holds, I don't know that I could fairly make an assumption. I do know my friend has to be recertified every so often and I do believe it is with a dr mandated with Social Security or has some affiliation. I would imagine at some point if he is faking it some dr along the way will figure it out. The problem with pain is that it comes and goes and the good days are far fewer than the bad.
I hope your relative isn't faking it. I sure hate that whole idea. But if you are privy to information that leads you to believe that it is fraud then yes, you should report him to the insurance company. Knowing full well there are consequences.
Kelly