If someone wants to ask if there are any upgrades available, that's fine with me. That's your choice..and hopefully you can get what you want.
My issue is that these boards can sometimes lead to a lot of disappointment. A ton of people come here and post about all the great free stuff they got. They post about the wonderful upgrade they got. They tell us about the cakes, drinks, Mickey bars, cupcakes, fast passes, etc., that they got because they had a particular button on. They tell us about the balloons left in their room, they tell us about the signed photos or cards left in the room.
The problem is that there are so many people that post these things that other people believe that they are commonplace..and when they get to WDW, and nothing 'magical' happens, they are sorely disappointed. And that's just not fair. When I need something special, or 'magical' to happen, for a special birthday or other type celebration, I plan it for myself. I order what is needed, I pay for it. That way there is no disappointment.
I just hate to see so many people think all this wonderful stuff is going to happen for them because they see it here, on the boards, all the time. And truly, upgrades, free balloons, free Mickey bars just don't happen all that often.