First I want to tell you to have a wonderful vacation, I am sure you will enjoy staying at a
DVC resort, they are all beautiful.
Life is unpredictable, and circumstances occur that are out of our control. So I don't think you should feel bad about renting out your points for the first 3 years. I work in healthcare, and also had a personal experience with a family member being very ill for an extended period of time. Lukily she has recovered, and we are now looking forward to our trip back to WDW. If someone would have told me this would have been possible a year ago, she spent 3+ months in intensive care, I would not have believed it.
As a first time renter of points I am so excited looking forward to our upcoming trip. The DVC member I have been working with has been very prompt with PM replies, I have also spoke with him on the phone. I have to admit that the number of posts he has added to my comfort level. I can only trust what he is telling me and I understood this when I entered into the deal. I have rec'd a confirmation number, and he is emailing my reservation confirmation to me. OKW here we come.
Again have a Magical vacation.