How rude and Selfish Is This?!?!?!?

[Dr.Girlfriend]

I can't believe I read the whole thing thread.

Your family has some really really really messed up ideas around food, so which one of your parents is it? I'm leaning towards dad.

I think the Dad took it, too considering his history with stealing pudding.

 

[bluefairy13]

No, I choose to ignore them. If they have nothing better to do then talk about people on the DIS behind their backs, that's their waste of life, not mine.

Good for you.

Now do yourself a favor and stop feeding the (fat, hairy, warted, old, stupid) trolls. Stop posting now. Step back. Take a break.

The trolls are feeding on your problems and you need to stop helping them do it.

 

[disneymom3]

Oh yeah, and if you hit the little quotation marks on all the posts you want to answer and then quote just the last one, you can answer all at once.

But when it was my dad breaking the law, and I vented about that, I got flamed.

Seriously--people did not flame you about venting about your dad breaking the law. You got flamed because you called the cops on him! Clearly you still missed the point of what people were saying.

I have to admit though that I would have been irked about the pudding too. Not enough to post about it, unless I was just being silly, but irked nonetheless.

 

[Stacerita]

I guess we need a scale. Is this on a 1-10, with 1 being Mother Teresa and 10 being Hitler?

I wonder where most of us would end up on that scale?

 

[marlynnp]

Seriously--people did not flame you about venting about your dad breaking the law. You got flamed because you called the cops on him! Clearly you still missed the point of what people were saying.

WHOA! STOP THE BUS!!!

She called the police because her dad ate her pudding???

 

[FayeW]

WHOA! STOP THE BUS!!!

She called the police because her dad ate her pudding???

No, she didn't call the cops about the pudding. She didn't call the cops at all. She wondered if she should because her father was breaking the law by burning garbage in a pit at the back of the property. One day he was burning and some neighbors called 911 because they thought somebody's property was on fire. Dad played dumb when the police came "oh so sorry Officer, I didn't know I needed a permit!" and then turned around and did it again the very next day. She wondered if she should anonymously call the police, since Dad was purposely breaking the law, and annoying the neighbors with stinky garbage smoke.

This guy shows no respect to anyone; not the OP, not his neighbors, not the police who warned him the day before. He truly thinks he can do whatever he wants, when or where ever he wants, and to whomever he wants.

Pudding stealing, room searching, mail opening JERK!

 

[jax677]

I think its wrong to steal from a donation box. I think its in bad taste and just like others have said, god is watching. I think you are right in being upset.

As for the pudding, I also think its odd and wrong for your dad to do that. In my house we share and if something isn't there the next day, oh well. But if you grew up in a house where nothing is shared, then thats your reality. I am curious, at what age didn't you get to share with your parents? I am assuming that was a time you used their food?

 

[disneyfav4ever]

Maybe try to be a bit clearer with facts and decide whether you just want to vent or whether you're asking for advice. If you just want to vent, state that up front and most people will just leave it alone. If you ask for advice or say "how should I handle this" or "what would you do" then people are going to give you their opinions. And they're probably going to ask for more info so that they can better determine a course of action.

Actually, I used to always say that I was venting, and not asking for advice, but posters always said some version of, "I'm going to say this anyway," and give me advice, even though I just wanted to vent. I did not ask for advice in my OP, they only thing I did ask, in my title, was how rude and selfish it was.

 

[disneyfav4ever]

Seriously--people did not flame you about venting about your dad breaking the law. You got flamed because you called the cops on him! Clearly you still missed the point of what people were saying.

I think you need to reread that thread. I did not call the cops on him, the neighbors did.

 

[disneyfav4ever]

No, she didn't call the cops about the pudding. She didn't call the cops at all. She wondered if she should because her father was breaking the law by burning garbage in a pit at the back of the property. One day he was burning and some neighbors called 911 because they thought somebody's property was on fire. Dad played dumb when the police came "oh so sorry Officer, I didn't know I needed a permit!" and then turned around and did it again the very next day. She wondered if she should anonymously call the police, since Dad was purposely breaking the law, and annoying the neighbors with stinky garbage smoke.

I couldn't have said what happened better myself. Except to say that he did know he shouldn't of been burning it the first night, and that I was bothered that he had the dog out there with him.

 

[disneyfav4ever]

I think its wrong to steal from a donation box. I think its in bad taste and just like others have said, god is watching. I think you are right in being upset.

As for the pudding, I also think its odd and wrong for your dad to do that. In my house we share and if something isn't there the next day, oh well. But if you grew up in a house where nothing is shared, then thats your reality. I am curious, at what age didn't you get to share with your parents? I am assuming that was a time you used their food?

When I was 15, and started working.

 

[paigevz]

WHOA! STOP THE BUS!!!

She called the police because her dad ate her pudding???

You made me laugh so hard. THAT would be some thread now.

 

[Todd&Copper]

WHOA! STOP THE BUS!!!

She called the police because her dad ate her pudding???

"Hello, officer? My dad ate my pudding and I wanted to report him. See, we label all of our food, and the box was CLEARLY labeled as mine, but he ate all of it up while it was cooling on the counter.
. . .
WHat do you mean you can't arrest him? HE STOLE MY PUDDING!"

[OP, this is a fictional scenario involving a daughter calling the cops on her pudding pilfering pop and NOT in any way your reality, I hope.]

 

[Jennasis]

OP, this is mostly for you. Just stop...let it die already.

 

[CheshireVal]

Actually, I used to always say that I was venting, and not asking for advice, but posters always said some version of, "I'm going to say this anyway," and give me advice, even though I just wanted to vent.

So, ideally, you just want to come on here, complain about whatever, and have no one at all respond to you other than to use

I think maybe a personal diary or journal might be what you need rather than a public message board.

 

[dcgrumpy]

So, ideally, you just want to come on here, complain about whatever, and have no one at all respond to you other than to use

I think maybe a personal diary or journal might be what you need rather than a public message board.

A blog would probably be a good idea.

Another idea is to stop bumping up threads and just it let them die

 

[disneyfav4ever]

So, ideally, you just want to come on here, complain about whatever, and have no one at all respond to you other than to use

I think maybe a personal diary or journal might be what you need rather than a public message board.

I don't care how anyone responds, wether it's positive or negative. What bothers me is when I give them an answer to one of their questions or a reason for any of my decisions, and then they post that I am a horrible, selfish, ungrateful, etc, person.

 

[disneyfav4ever]

Another idea is to stop bumping up threads and just it let them die

Yes, but then when I don't answer questions, I get flamed for that. Talk about double standards, if I answer questions, I am making "excuses," and if I don't answer, I get flamed for "ignoring" posters.

 

[bluefairy13]

Yes, but then when I don't answer questions, I get flamed for that. Talk about double standards, if I answer questions, I am making "excuses," I get flamed for "ignoring" posters.

I'm not sure how you manage it but you produce some "train wreck" threads. It's not all your fault, you've been pegged as such, and some people are just waiting on the edge of their seats for you to start another thread so they can have a good laugh at your expense.

I feel sorry for you, but you are asking for it. You really should stop posting for awhile and not answer anybody about anything. (including this thread of mine.)

If you keep posting, you'll get what you are asking for.

 

[disneyfav4ever]

I'm not sure how you manage it but you produce some "train wreck" threads. It's not all your fault, you've been pegged as such, and some people are just waiting on the edge of their seats for you to start another thread so they can have a good laugh at your expense.

I feel sorry for you, but you are asking for it. You really should stop posting for awhile and not answer anybody about anything. (including this thread of mine.)

If you keep posting, you'll get what you are asking for.

I know there are several threads out there that are just for making fun of me. I've tried not posting for awhile, but it seems I always end up just coming back.