I am
very careful how much I let the things I read on the DisBoards influence my expectations, for this very reason.
If you've been to Disney World before, trust your memories and your reasons for returning. If you've never been, keep an open mind about what you'll encounter there.
Reading the Disboards can sometimes leave you with the impression that the parks have decayed into the most wretched hive of scum and villainy imaginable. The resorts are overpriced and the rooms are crawling with bugs. The parks are dirty. The rides are broken. Castmembers are rude. Drunken guests are staggering around everywhere, peeing in front of your children and vomiting on your shoes. Mickey is a greedy, corporate rat whose only motivation is to steal all your money and ruin your precious childhood memories.
The reality is, there's a reason most of us keep going back. There's a reason many of us invest in annual passes, and some even buy into the vacation club. And that reason is, we actually have a really good time when we're there.
Most cast members are delightful. Most of the time, the parks are clean. The rides are fun. Disney is constantly building new attractions. We feel like we're getting value for our money, most of the time. If something bad happens, we may write about it, but odds are good that really was the only bad thing about an otherwise excellent vacation. Very few people encounter everything every other person has ever complained about.
Yes, there are some rare individuals who've decided the parks are awful, but who still remain on these boards to vent their disappointment. However most of us are here because we love our
Disney vacations and are eagerly anticipating the next one.
For me, I don't go expecting the worst and hoping to be "pleasantly surprised". Because I know, personally, that attitude would simply guarantee that I'd spot every bit of refuse on every bathroom floor, I'd notice every cast member who failed to wish me a magical day, every ride that's out of service, and that worn spot on my hotel room floor rug would negatively impact my impression of the entire room. So when I hear these stories, I think instead, "Oh, that's too bad that happened to
them," and then I put it out of my mind. If I encounter these things, hopefully, I won't ascribe much importance to them, because there will be so many other wonderful things to distract me. And if the time ever comes when Disney stops being a fun vacation... then I just won't go back. And I'll quit the Disboards (because I'll be on some other vacation board, eagerly anticipating my vacation to some other wonderful place).