I hardly spend anytime in the room. The first 2 cruises, I only used the room to shower, sleep, change clothes. The last cruise I was on, which was only a 2 night to nowhere, I spent more time in my room. I took a 3 hour nap (which never happens when I am not on a ship) and had a couple room service meals. It was actually really nice.
I've always booked the cheapest ocean view so I would have more money to be out doing things. That has worked well for me. I am cruising again soon and have the ocean view booked, but am going to check on a port upgrade. If I can get it for only a few hundred dollars, I'll do it. Otherwise, I'm fine with the room I have booked.
What do you do with the dishes afterward? I've always only brought things I could hand carry like milk and donuts. I'd love be bring a whole plate of food if I knew where to put the plate afterward.