After DD2 was born (older DD's usually sleep over their dad's), BF was out of the question before she wakes up, and I'm definetly not doing shopper's battle with her in tow. I sometimes go to a few stores I know are not usually crowded that day, and just buy some online non crazy sale items (so I can feel involved with BF-I'm a bargain shopper at heart) if MIL comes by to watch her. This year, I'm in the market for a digital camera for DD12, and a dvd recorder for DH's birthday (haven't checked the calendar to see if BF is before or after his B'day), and possibly GBA or clothes for DD16. I have already started my Xmas shopping for everyone, and usually continue all year, as I find bargains. Can't wait for BF!