I was flower girl in my aunt's wedding in 1984.
Next was my own wedding in 2002.
Then I was MOH for my mom/stepdads wedding in 2003.
Finally, I was "personal attendant" for a friends wedding in 2007.
If you ever get asked to be a personal attendant, run far away. You do much of the work, and don't get any of the recognition that the bridesmaids get. I was never quite sure exactly what I was supposed to be doing. Don't get me wrong, I was happy to be able to help my friend, but I was newly pregnant at the time so I was tired as it was. By the end of the night I was shot, and fell asleep in a chair at the reception!