I'm planning my trip for next March and want to stay on site for the first time. How long to really do the parks right, enjoy ourselves, relaxed vacation and not need to go commando? We've been 2x before, but stayed off site and barely got to hit anything in the parks.
We have 3 kids - 2, 7 and 9.
We want to do all the parks and really experience everything. Would a week do it or need more? 10 days? 2 weeks?
As you will often hear on these forums, "Doing it right" is going to vary dramatically from family to family. I am curious as to why staying off site prevented you from doing anything in the parks? We always stay off site and have never felt it had any negative impact on our park time.
Anyway, my thoughts and suggestions about what has worked well for us:
1) Time. If you work and need to take time off, I have always thought a 10 day vacation was most efficient. This allows you to have 2 travel days, 7 full days in Orlando and one day after return to get things back together at home prior to returning to work/school. Efficient in that you get 10 days off while using only 6 days of vacation. (I really like to have one day upon return to get everything back in order at home)
2) Commando vs. Relaxed. I tried to "commando" my family when they were similar ages you your kids. Huge mistake. I applaud your wisdom in avoiding that. However, your comment that you want to not commando, yet "do everything" is at odds, as many have pointed out.
Given the time of year you are going, it will likely be busy, so I would suggest this for your park days:
- Arrive at rope drop if at all possible
- Tour the park until 1pm or so
- Return to your lodging and recharge your batteries until 5pm or so
- Return to the park for parades, fireworks etc. (As our kids have gotten older, we don't always return in the evenings, and relax/swim/shop/board games... instead)
This schedule contains no great insights, but is widely recommended for lots of reasons by people that get paid to give this advice. It has always worked well for us.
Other posts have gotten into this, but 7 full days gives you 2 days at MK, 1 day a the other 3 parks, and 2 re-charge days. Consider Nasa, Downtown Disney, Gatorland. Also, my kids really enjoy Medieval Times. If your kids like horses it is actually a lot of fun and something different.)
3) If you are planning to stay on-site, good for you, many people swear by it and I don't doubt them. I am curious what you did about off-site on your previous trips. After we had been to Disney a time or two, we rented a Villa at Windsor Hills and it changed our view forever. The Villa had 5 bedrooms, 4 bathrooms, a games room, and a PRIVATE POOL. All this for $165 per night or so. Of course you can get smaller homes and nice condo's for less (sans the private pool). The private pool is a game changer for us. No need to grab a bunch of stuff and kids, head to the pool, fight for chairs, etc.
This year we are renting a Villa at Lake Berkely. In addition to the above, there is a lake that is stocked with fish right behind our pool, so we can go fishing in our off times as well. Yet another thing that will give happy memories.
Good luck on your planning, you are doing a great thing for your family.
Ed