The ADRs are a separate story ... and nothing new. Remember when no one could get an ADR for Cinderella's table (a decade ago, probably)? Hot ticket ADRs just are what they are. They're hard to get, and you either get them or you don't. FP hasn't changed that.
Regarding the other 2 FPs you mention, I will say this. Under the old system, you could have showed up at rope drop, gotten a return time, and ridden them for sure. There is the matter, though, of whether the return time would have been acceptable to you -- because there was no choosing -- you got what you got. Also, there are those people who would have complained that they showed up at 11:00, and FPs were gone for the day! If your FP return time was unacceptable OR FPs were gone for the day, you choices would have been the same as they've always been ... wait in the standby line or skip it.
For our last trip (Thanksgiving 2014), I got everything I wanted (which in terms of hard to get things, just meant SDMT and for ADRs, an MK dessert party (which I will NEVER book again)). Luckily for me, I have a 13 year old who is not into A&E, and I have eaten at BOG once and won't make that mistake again. Regardless, I stressed, and researched, and planned and was diligent, and I was able to book what I wanted. Not saying anyone else doesn't do these things. But it was Thanksgiving week, for gosh sake, and I successfully booked what I wanted. We also rode most rides standby with little to no waits (meaning there wasn't even a separate FP line for those rides at that point).