I have to agree. We're cutting back our time, we used to go 3-4 times a year with at least one of those trips of 7 nights or more. We will not be renewing our APs this year, and are only going back soon to get a second week out of them. Normally we travel off-season and still do not like having to pre-plan our days and parks. Even with the ability to change on the fly, often the rides we want are no longer available - even a week in advance.
We normally would go to a park for a few hours in the morning, collect fast passes, and return at night to use them. We made the plans that day. We can't any longer.
Our former nice, relaxing trips to WDW have turned into an exercise in stress because we want to make sure we get on some of our favorite rides - and with a limit of only 3 per day (the 4th is useless), we go on our 3 and leave the park. That means no extra revenue from food or trinkets we may see and pick up. We're not eating at sit-down restaurants because again, they have to be planned in advance to match our fast pass days and times. It's been either eat in our cabin or have counter service.
Last trip, for the first time in about 10 years, left the property mid-vacation and went to KSC for the day.
We are AP holders and stay on site each and every trip - to give us the same entitlements as those staying offsite and buying length of stay tickets is simply not fair.
IMHO, Disney does not value it's most frequent guests and they're losing them as a result.