Firstly, if you have a tourning style already that really works for your family, there is no reason to change it just because you have a park hopping upgrade. That being said, I really like park hopping and couldn't imagine doing things a different way.
I think it is a good idea to plan hopping in advance. We don't stick to all of our plans, but planning can help the experience of hopping add to your vacation and not just be a process of transition from one park to the next. For example, hopping between EPCOT and Disney Studios can include a trip on the boats on crescent lake and a stop for a meal at any of the resorts along the way (Swan/Dolphin/Boardwalk/Y&B Clubs). If you plan this on an evening where EPCOT has extra hours and will be open late (assuming you're a Disney resort guest and can enjoy them), you can sleep in, have a good four hours or so at Disney Studios, have dinner, finish the trip to EPCOT and enjoy a late night in the park.
Another hop we like to do starts at the Animal Kingdom early to tour that park. We then go back to our resort, take naps, have a meal (usually a late lunch or early dinner) in our room (no ADR required!) or at a hotel restaurant, and then an early evening start in the Magic Kingdom for touring Tommorrowland under the lights and to see Wishes.