neverlandsky
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This is the absolutely most reasonable approach. Our son knew it applied to him because we taught him in relation to our room when the door was closed. From the youngest age, he was not allowed to barge in our us but he could rely on us responding to him quickly.Our doors don't lock, but if they did, it'd still be a "no."There's a safety issue here and I'm the person who is legally responsible. However, we always had a rule: If ANYONE'S door is closed, you knock and wait for a response. No barging in, and DD knew she needed to respond to a knock, even if it was "just a minute."
BTW I just noticed one of OP's other threads is about how her daughter just turned 18 and will be moving away for college come fall.
Dad walking into an 18 year old woman's bedroom without more than 2 seconds notice feels really icky to me.
No locked doors allowed in our house. My husband went through abuse in childhood that happened behind locked doors, so it's absolutely not allowed for our kids in our home.
It could be popped open with a screwdriver, but if there’s an emergency I don’t want to be looking for a screwdriver.