I feel very fortunate that DH and I are making the money we are, around $175,000 between the two of us. I know there are people who make less than that and people who make much more. It sounds like a lot to me but it doesn't seem like we make that much. I still wouldn't feel like we could afford to stay at a deluxe (family of 5) for 7 to 10 days. We have debt we are trying to pay off and two kids in college. The last time we went to Disney was in 2002, and we stayed on site. Going this September for 5 nights and staying onsite in a moderate resort. If we were debt free and kids out of college I could see going every year or even twice a year, but till then just can't do it. We don't travel anywhere else, either. We just stay home! If we had been smarter with our money and not gotten into debt we'd have a lot more cash right now available for vacations!
Maybe you had fun running up the debt?
Don't look back and be sad about the past. It's an actual scientific fact that money doesn't make people happy, once you get past the $30,000-a-year mark. I spent a good portion of my life making lots of money, saving, being a good "ant" (my DH is the grasshopper)- then I got sick with rheumatoid arthritis and now I just want to spend it all while I can, and while the kids are at home. I know my golden years aren't going to be golden at all. Whoever dies with the most toys doesn't win- it's the one who dies with the most memories


But its true you do buy more with the 35% off. I still buy stuff when I go but not as much, it has to be super swell.
That also forces me to save for the rest of my vacation