I spend money on nothing (except Disney) unless I have to.
I always shop clearance sales and goodwill (on and when I am in the states, Kmart - they have a good selection of plus size clothes, cheap).
I bring my lunch to work and I shop frugally (basically I buy to the sale flyer). My only real treat (that I insist on) is my daily coffee at $1.58 (extra large tim hortons)
I make due with "seconds" or off brands (I don't own
crocs - I own air walks which I bought when the store had the buy one get one half off sale - so it was 2 pairs for $22.50). Yes, I want a pair of Disney crocs but at $35 cdn, it is not in the cards right now.
I plan ahead for Christmas and birthdays for family and friends. (for instance, the DS had really cute large mugs 2 for $15 so I bought a set of 3 for my best friend and 1 for my mom for mothers day - for my niece, again the DS had tshirts and hats on clearance - $5 and $2 respectively. Even though her birthday is not until August, she is bought for - last year I got her a princess dress for $12.50 again on clearance).
I don't go to the movies or rent them (I wait for them to come on tv); dinner out means Swiss Chalet or at the high end Red Lobster. I have dial up internet access at home (yes, I am lucky that at work I have high speed except of course for the firewall).
I look for deals when it comes to Disney as well (I have never paid full price for my trips).
I do all this so I can afford deluxe hotels.
Everyone makes choices about what they want in life - vacations don't just happen, you have to make them happen.