How do i get him 2 notice?

[TiggerBelle05]

how do i get him to notice me? i mean like i dunno. all my friends and family (well of course, their family) say im cute, beautiful, u name it. but see i dont think guys see me in that way, and i dont have many guys friends and its because im to shy to talk to anyone. the guy i like is kinda popular and he is really cute. hes everything i look for in a guy. but i cant get him, let alone any guy, to notice me. what am i doing wrong???
HELP!

 

[WDWfanatic288]

you sound just like me '


are you friends withthe guy? if not...become friends with him
and if you arent...you HAVE to become friends with him...b/c he could be a HUGE jerk but you wouldn't know that

but I would also like to know what I do...no guys ever notice me(I don't see how they can't...I'm so loud )

 

[TinkerBellPixie4GOAL]

I agree. I think that you should become friends with him. Find something you have in common and talk about that. It's your choice to tell your friends. I've had times when I told my friends that I liked someone and they spread the word and when it got to him he started to have a crush on me, but then I didn't really like him anymore. The next time I liked him I again told my friends and they spread the word again, but it never really got to him and everyone teased me about it. For some reason we never seem to like each other at the same time. Oi vey!

 

[KittieKat]

Ah, thats me! lol..i have no problem talking to guys, i have lots of guy friends..just no "boy" friends. Gets on my nerves!

 

[AbErGrl217]

I wouldn try to find out his interests and maybe start a convo with the things he likes. That might work. Or you could find out what he likes in a girl. Or you can try to become friends wit him. That always works.

 

[ShuisFan584]

I also never had any guy friends and that kinda doesn't help. I did have one guy friend that I met last year in my first period class. Over the summer I met some of his friends and now I have a few more guy friends. I'm glad I met one of them because from hanging out a lot, we got to know each other better. Right now we're only friends since we haven't known each other that long, but we're both hoping something might happen in the future.

So just try to become friends with him first. After you get to know each other, maybe he'll realize that he likes you!

 

[poohdiddy]

Well take it from a guy. k cuase the pooh masta is in the house!! lol
anyway. does this boy know about you? is he friends with any of your friends. if so let one of your friends introduce you to him and when they do act cute and shy(guys love that) then after you are introduced to him start talking to him but flriting at the same time and then every day do a little bit more and then he will start to like you. try not to avoid being really good friends with him the reason why is because it will be more difficult to go out with him. and what i mean by that is he will probally be afraid that if you two were to brake up it would mess up the relationship as being friends. i know this sounds confusing but you gotta trust me on this. good luck!! and if you still don't catch my drift reply back so i can try to explain it better.

 

[Wick]

Pshhh Take it from a real man..

Wear somethin skimpy !

lol, nah just do something that he's bound to notice.

What I do when i approach a girl is say "how YOUUUUUu doing?"

hahah.. chill just be yourself with a touch of a little extra perkyness and you'll catch his eye.

 

[Poohbear14]

Wow this thread was really helpful. I've been trying to get a guy to notice me too !

 

[diDdLygRL]

hmmm...how to ge thim to notice you....become friends w/him....thats how i got my exes to notice me.....like daniel i just wanted to get away form this girl that i didnt like and he was walking past and i was like daniel!! and ran up to catch up and we became friends then we started dating