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I really don't remember what I did for DS#!, as we were not yet married, and I knew it was going to cause problems, at least at first.
With our DS#2, I told my husband to go into our bathroom (we were still living with my parents at the time) and he saw the HPT. We told my folks by saying that we were really looking for our own place as we needed to be out by April. (my parents had said we could stay there as long as we needed so long we did not have a second child) We told the in-laws with a "expecting to be a big brother" t-shirt when they came to pick up DS for a weekend trip. I had to point it out to them as they had been there a 1/2 hour, were getting ready to leave, and sill had not noticed!!
With DD, I called my husband at work, then went next door to my friends house and asked her "a positive is a positive no matter how light, right?" (There were three of us in our 6-unit building who were pregnant at the same time! One of the other units was two guys and another had a older lady, we joked that the other lady who is my age had better not drink the water!!) We told our parents at Thanksgiving the next month by giving them cards with the news in it.
With our DS#2, I told my husband to go into our bathroom (we were still living with my parents at the time) and he saw the HPT. We told my folks by saying that we were really looking for our own place as we needed to be out by April. (my parents had said we could stay there as long as we needed so long we did not have a second child) We told the in-laws with a "expecting to be a big brother" t-shirt when they came to pick up DS for a weekend trip. I had to point it out to them as they had been there a 1/2 hour, were getting ready to leave, and sill had not noticed!!
With DD, I called my husband at work, then went next door to my friends house and asked her "a positive is a positive no matter how light, right?" (There were three of us in our 6-unit building who were pregnant at the same time! One of the other units was two guys and another had a older lady, we joked that the other lady who is my age had better not drink the water!!) We told our parents at Thanksgiving the next month by giving them cards with the news in it.
Anyhow, I gave him the stick for #2....just left it in the bathroom. For #1, I gave him a father's day card with the Dr's note of confirmation pasted inside.
After we lost our 3rd (stillborn), I discovered I was pregnant a few months later. I knew many people in my family had told me flat out that they thought I shouldn't have another child, so I really didn't want anyone to know. I didn't even tell my parents! At the time, my mother was sick with Altzheimers and I would go to their house daily, lugging a 3 yr old and an 18 mon. old, to take care of my mom. No one seemed to notice (lots of oversized t-shirt and leggings!). Gradually, my dad started to make comments about my weight. Still, I kept quiet.
Finally, I couldn't take anymore. He had gone out shopping and came back with a gift for me....a work-out calendar complete with diet tips!
I broke down and just about yelled "Dad! I'm not fat, I'm pregnant!!"
The look on his face priceless. 
We also made sure to tell Brad's parents in person. (we didn't want to chance a repeat of the dd #1 announcement!) We always go on vacation with them after Christmas and I always have trouble getting off work. So I told them I wouldn't have any trouble getting off work for our trip this year. They of course asked how I managed that and I told them I would be on maternity leave. It was fun to watch their faces as it dawned on them