I would disagree that Veteran's Day crowds are similar to early December. I looked not too long ago, and early December TP crowds were predicted at 2s and 3s. We were there over Veteran's Day in 2014, and crowds were more like 6-8s than 2s/3s. The Wine and Dine 1/2 Marathon in Epcot is the weekend before Veteran's Day (Nov 6/7th this year), and that increases the crowds a bit through the holiday (at least that's what we observed last year).
If we don't do the Wine and Dine run this year, we're looking at going the following weekend - starting Nov. 13th. Crowds in 2014 were lower at that point than they were the previous weekend into Veteran's Day.