Great thread, been very interesting to read through and get ideas. But most of all made me think what we have been doing and what we could do better.
Most of what we are doing is a carry over from what we implemented when COVID shut down started. DH had huge salary cut until company was sure how they would come out. Their company survives on people going to offices to work. That pinch made us really start cutting back then.
Because I was sure by February 2020 that we were going into lockdown I had actually stocked up on TP, paper towels, detergents, soaps, toiletries, cleaning wipes, OTC medicines, extra flu medicines, etc. I had about 6 months worth so I wasn't out there trying to buy any but if I saw some of something we were using, I'd pick up one to replenish. I have continued to watch for good sales on these items we need and buy multiples and store it.
Obviously we stopped going out to eat and we really haven't gotten interested in returning to that. There is the occasional with family or friends but otherwise lost the interest, especially when the bill came.
During shutdown I focused on shopping at ALDI right by my house - small, less people, in and out, felt safer. I actually tried some of their items that I would have never tried, cost less. 40 years of Tide, Snuggle, Palmolive DW soap ... I now am spending much less for ALDI brand and am even happier with their products. While I don't like all their stuff I do find I'm saving a great deal on basics and having the extra change for fancy cheese etc that are a treat. Trying more and more generic brands. Their canned goods are MUCH less than the grocery so I have stockpiled about a 50 I replenish. We cut back on the items like chips, soda, desserts, snacks and only buy on big sale. Really don't miss most of it. But if an item we like has crossed the line, we don't buy.
When our outside fridge died, we didn't replace it but bought a small chest freezer. We cut back some on meat (not every night and smaller portions) and buy on sale & freeze. We have a food saver. Worth it's weight in gold to buy cheaper bulk. Last year we replaced our old washer & dryer with very efficient ones. Mine worked fine but I know they were old, burning up the energy and used lots of water. Use minimal heat in winter, A/C is harder but we got new thermostats.
During shutdown we started a fresh veggie delivery service. It was awesome, healthy and reasonable. After a year they changed their model so we had to quit BUT in that year we were trying new things, looking up new recipes and having some great meals. We also bought some appliances to shake it up in the kitchen; crepe maker, fondue pot, panini maker, instapot, air fryer, meat slicer, small egg cookers. We were able to cook without heating up the oven. And the fun meals help replace dining out.
We've always had a veggie garden but we are in process of preparing for our 2023 garden by moving it to a fenced in area that will allow us to quadruple the size. We bought grow lights and this winter started growing from seed (the veggie prices for small plant are crazy). Used a bunch of Kohls cash & coupon to get a small greenhouse that will go in this area. Goal is tons of fresh food next year. Start seed in house, move to green house then plant. Rather than spend money on annual flowers for my front bed I put a variety of herbs. I am out there trimming fresh for dining.
We cut the cord! Internet only. No cable, no land line. It had creeped to $200 a month. We stream. We have
Disney+ an original 3 year cheap plan. Renew is November, but will likely bundle so we can get rid of our ESPN. We also pay for low plan of Netflix and I have
Amazon Prime. DS pays for Paramount with a discount. Apple TV is free at moment. DD pays for
YouTube TV (they are allowed to share) grandfathered in at $35 a mo. So specific to streaming we (DH & I) currently spend about $25. Don't miss cable.
We have cut back on entertainment, think twice about going to any events above the memberships we have (and utilize often); zoo, AMC A List, museum ...
Vacation. We had DL all booked for 2020, they closed. We were to do DL Paris next and then a cruise. All cancelled. Our WDW trips continue because we drive there, have lowest cost AP and have been using points for our stays. We have place at beach and that is our main vacation place. We mostly cook in so very low cost vacation.
GAS ... DH works from home and uses minimal. I have to go out every day but I make sure my errands are well planned to go along with my commute. No double backs, and being efficient with gas usage. We can drive a couple miles extra to save 20-30 cents on gas. We change our oil on time and watch our tire pressure for better gas mileage. We get Kroger and Shell gas points.
We are cleaning out and donating clothes and found we have plenty left that will take us through. We haven't bought much in the way of clothes in 2+ years. Without going out much we just don't need a big wardrobe. Living the casual life.
DS#2 and I thrift. He is a teacher but sells on eBay as one of his side incomes. I have been selling a couple years and have begun selling our stuff kids don't want like my Waterford. We go to estate sales, garage sales, thrift stores and Goodwills. Even if not interested in selling (it is a lot of work) you can get such nice things at a fraction of the price. Clothing, books, furniture, toys ... much in new condition or brand new in package. To sell easier, sell on Facebook marketplace things you don't want. Easy way for extra money. Great way to get big items out of your house.
I think it's a constant now trying to cut costs, not renew things, checking with insurance company for better rates, adjusted cell service ... trying to stay a step ahead.