I haven't read all the responses on this - and if I know the internet you quite possibly have already been chased from this thread with a few not-nice responses.
But I wanted to say- it's a valid point that you have. Housekeeping is NOT the same with DVC. That said - I am not sure how much time you have spent staying at timeshares. We have and DVC is infinitely better than most timeshares. Most timeshares you get ZERO housekeeping. No trash service. No fresh towels. No cleaning, no nothing. So in my view - DVC is a step up from this. Owning DVC I am literally saving thousands of dollars versus the hotel side. I did the calculation on hotel rooms versus DVC across the 20 nights we are staying at DVC between November 2017 and October 2018 - and the savings is versus a 25% discounted cash room is $6,340. For me - saving that much money and having to make my own bed and fold my towel is plenty. If for you it's a dealbreaker, then it's pretty clear DVC is not for you.
An alternative choice of course is to pay for housekeeping every day. It's pretty expensive, but again it wouldn't have dented that $6,300 even so. ($30 a day over 20 days = $600)
Edit: On another thread - I remember someone complaining about the lack of clean towels, and I posed the question "But you don't wash your towels at home everyday?" and the person responded with "Yes we do" which sort of blew me away and I agreed that this was another case where maybe DVC is not for you. (I also thought.)