I love the show at HDMR. We usually go every single trip. However, I liked the food at the SOA better. HDMR the action takes place all over the theatre, so everyone is part of the show. At the SOA, they invite childen up on stage and teach them how to do the hola, which makes for very cute photos. So, it's really up to you and what you think you're children will have the most fun doing.