We are in the process of registering the kids for their new schools for next year. DS13 will be in 9th grade, high school
and they have to apply to be in the honors classes which then will roll into AP classes as they get older. DS is more then capable of achieving good grades in honors courses but he is lazy and his grades are not stellar because of that. I would like to sign him up for the regular classes this coming year and see how things go, but the counselor suggested that if we want him in honors classes he should really start in them in 9th grade.
The reality of the situation for him now is he is going to get the same grades no matter what class he is in. If he is in the "easy" class he won't try because he knows it already (right) and because he is bright will do ok on tests just from listening in class. If he is in the honors class he will most likely do the homework but won't remember to turn half of it in and since the tests will be more difficult, he will probably end up with the same grades as the regular class.
I don't want him to find himself as a junior in high school and not being able to get into college because he was lazy in 9th grade and finally figured out that you do have to put forth some effort in life (at least I am HOPING he figures this out).
Any ideas or opinions on what you would do?
and they have to apply to be in the honors classes which then will roll into AP classes as they get older. DS is more then capable of achieving good grades in honors courses but he is lazy and his grades are not stellar because of that. I would like to sign him up for the regular classes this coming year and see how things go, but the counselor suggested that if we want him in honors classes he should really start in them in 9th grade.The reality of the situation for him now is he is going to get the same grades no matter what class he is in. If he is in the "easy" class he won't try because he knows it already (right) and because he is bright will do ok on tests just from listening in class. If he is in the honors class he will most likely do the homework but won't remember to turn half of it in and since the tests will be more difficult, he will probably end up with the same grades as the regular class.
I don't want him to find himself as a junior in high school and not being able to get into college because he was lazy in 9th grade and finally figured out that you do have to put forth some effort in life (at least I am HOPING he figures this out).
Any ideas or opinions on what you would do?
). I think I would have a face to face meeting with the teachers from middle school and a meeting with the counselor and your son at the high school and see what your gut reaction is. Good luck.

I am a procrastinator. But my honors classes had a slight air of competitiveness about them. So it kept me in check. Also when my HS calculated gpa's they added in an extra point for every honors class you took and I believe 2 points for every AP class you took. Now onto my college story. My dream college was a stretch for me. They wanted much higher SAT scores than I had. I was accepted into that college because of my honors classes and my AP classes. These classes show that you are willing to put the effort in and try the harder classes. Colleges look for stuff like that. Also if you do well on the AP exams you might get some college credit making it much easier on yourself. I had to take some 20 credit semesters in an engineering college. I blame it all on senioritis!