I have a 2016. The transmission is a typical Honda, and doesn't always shift as smoothly as I would like.
The Pilot is one of the best mid-size SUVs on the market. Having said that, SUVs are not the best way to haul a family around. They may be trendy, but they're not space efficient and really aren't great at doing anything. If you've got the need to haul kids and their stuff around, your one and only answer is minivan. The Odyssey...which is built on the exact same platform as the Pilot...is a darn good minivan. Move beyond the "stigma" and get what will really work for your needs.
We currently own three Honda odyssey’s, only because dd21 totaled the fourth. So easy for kids to hop in and out of, and we’ve been carpooling for everything for so many years. I end up with seven teenagers in the van very often.Not sure where you're getting that. Honda uses some self designed transmissions, which are among the best in the business. For other ones, they outsource them to a company such a ZF...so it's the same transmission found in many other brands...Jeep for example. The Pilot will use either of these, depending on trim level you purchase.
The Pilot is one of the best mid-size SUVs on the market. Having said that, SUVs are not the best way to haul a family around. They may be trendy, but they're not space efficient and really aren't great at doing anything. If you've got the need to haul kids and their stuff around, your one and only answer is minivan. The Odyssey...which is built on the exact same platform as the Pilot...is a darn good minivan. Move beyond the "stigma" and get what will really work for your needs.
Following along...
Just starting our search with a plan to to buy in the next 1-2 yrs and debating between Pilot, Traverse or VW Atlas.

I’m in KY, so I don’t deal with a ton of snow. It seems to do pretty well because it is a nice solid, heavy vehicle.I have a 2007 with 124000 miles on it. I love it. It is awesome in the snow. Sometimes I did wish I had gotten that instead...until it snows bc I do not think the minivans have AWD. Not sure when OP lives, but the Pilot has been awesome in the snow....said as I sit here watching a snow storm out my window.
If you must have an SUV (again, IMO they're not good at anything), I'd run away from the Atlas as fast as I can. "VW" and "quality" are two words that should never be in the same sentence. Traverse is OK.
Car shopping is a lot about perception and wants. For example, PP mentioned loving the Explorer and that the Pilot felt sluggish and cheaply made. Fantastic that they love their Explorer...Ford sells boat loads of them every year, so they're doing something right. I've driven a bunch of them and find them decent transportation. But objectively, those statements aren't totally accurate (only the top trim Explorer Titanium is quicker than the Pilot, and barely).
Sorry to keep jumping in, I'm a car geek.![]()
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