I love love love my Odyssey.
But, it's an '02 and that's the year of the bad transmissions. Knock on wood, mine hasn't crapped out yet, but I'm prepared for it. If/when that happens, I plan to make the repair and keep on driving it at least until it's 10 yo. Love it that much. ETA: I'm at 100K miles.
I have no experience with Quests, so can't comment on those.