mamaloya
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OK, I will give my opinion on this.
First of all HeyNowFl, is right in that team sports may help, but not necessarily. It all depends on the players and the coach and if the boy is an athletic child. But I must also say to you that you should not attack homeschooling. To do so shows your ignorance and bias. Homeschoolers actually have less depression than those in public schools. A new child can feel just as lonely in a new school as at home. New kids are often the target of bullies and are sometimes shunned, especially in small towns. I personally have never heard of suicidal homeschoolers. I have heard of a kid or 2 that were suicidal and then BROUGHT home to homeschool because of the things that went through in PS. BTW, my oldest 2 children were never homeschooled and are doing wonderful, so I am not agaisnt PS.
Next, as an army family, we have a lot of experience with moving. As another mom pointed out, it takes time to adjust to the new town. My kids are all different. Some may take 1-2 months to make friends, but others have a new best friend the first day. My dd6 has a "best friend" everytime we are in a play place. Kids all adjust differently.
My advice to the mom of the 10yo boy is to give it time and just given him opportunities. Do NOT push it. He will come around.
First of all HeyNowFl, is right in that team sports may help, but not necessarily. It all depends on the players and the coach and if the boy is an athletic child. But I must also say to you that you should not attack homeschooling. To do so shows your ignorance and bias. Homeschoolers actually have less depression than those in public schools. A new child can feel just as lonely in a new school as at home. New kids are often the target of bullies and are sometimes shunned, especially in small towns. I personally have never heard of suicidal homeschoolers. I have heard of a kid or 2 that were suicidal and then BROUGHT home to homeschool because of the things that went through in PS. BTW, my oldest 2 children were never homeschooled and are doing wonderful, so I am not agaisnt PS.
Next, as an army family, we have a lot of experience with moving. As another mom pointed out, it takes time to adjust to the new town. My kids are all different. Some may take 1-2 months to make friends, but others have a new best friend the first day. My dd6 has a "best friend" everytime we are in a play place. Kids all adjust differently.
My advice to the mom of the 10yo boy is to give it time and just given him opportunities. Do NOT push it. He will come around.
Of course its a troll, and a familiar one at that.
). Last year the kids had a field trip to Cici's pizza, they all made their own pizzas. Callaway gardens has a great butterfly house, in addition to beautiful walking trails. We are close to the Little White House (where FDR died) and the National Fish Hatchery. Both are on our list to visit soon. Ditto for Historic Westville, a 1850's living history museum.
