Does he hate the mechanics of handwriting, does he hate coming up with something to write, or does he hate sitting down to do seatwork? If he hates the mechanics of handwriting, you can teach him to type. If he hates coming up with something to write, you could let him do copywork for certain days of the week and give him specific topics on which to write on the others (write about his favorite baseball player, what he'd like to do on a hike, what he likes best about swimming, his favorite food, etc). If he hates sitting down for seatwork, let him take sidewalk chalk and write outside or print out lots of words he could use and let him rearrange them into his story.
those are great ideas. My ds9 also HATES to write. When we do math on paper, at first I always write it for him (he has to tell me what to write and where to put the numbers). We'll do it this way for a while, then I tell him HE has to do the writing, but I only make him do a couple of problems w/ HIM doing the actual writing. But honestly, he'd rather do 50 problems w/ me doing the writing, than do 3 with him doing the writing. For for now, we go with it. I think I have to pull out the white board again... I remember him liking that. (I love these posts... they make me think).
He has horrible penmanship (as does my dh and most guys I know, so I don't really sweat it), but we have a "writing notebook" we've been using for copywork (Charlotte Mason style sort of). But I make funny sentences about him, or true sentences about him (always about him). It's sort of become a journal (My cousins came over to play today). Things like that. I also get in the dates (Today is Monday, January 2, 2011), because homeschooled kids (or at least mine), don't have to do this on a regular basis like in school. Also, whatever I feel he's lacking (he didn't know all the 12 months of the year - whoops!), so that was his assignment for his writing notebook for a few weeks, until he got it.
But interestingly enough, he is currently learning script (because HE asked to), and he LOVES it. I haven't mentioned to him that's it's WRITING... LOL!! I keep my big mouth shut and let him go to town w/ it. He says it's his favorite thing we're doing right now. Go figure...

And his script is better than his print. I can actually read what he's writing. He puts so much time and attention into his script, and again, HE HATES WRITING!


For 'book reports', I let him do them verbally. I even bought a small digital recorder for him to do them, but he didn't really take to that. But some kids might LOVE that though. He simply tells me what's going on in the story after he reads. (He also has to read aloud to me, because I don't fully trust he's reading when he says he's reading).
I love bouncing ideas off each other!