If you want a quieter Minnie meal with good food, I would recommend Cape May breakfast. If you aren't on the dining plan, you could also try the character breakfast at the Four Seasons (would need to take an uber/lyft/cab or Minnie Van there). I believe it's only held once a week, but it will be MUCH nicer than either CM or H&V. They don't take the
DDP though. Honestly, I can't recommend CM or H&V. If I needed to choose less chaotic, it would be CM, but the food at both is really bad.