Both families were a bit wierd...
As you say, no table service or nice restaurants - just icky hot dogs and junk. They didn't seem to use fastpass either - they seemed to queue for hours. Plus going at the busiest time of year and going to the parks at the busiest time of the day.
Despite the army guy's odd character, he was trying his best to ensure that the other family got the most out of their trip to Slovinia (even if they didn't seem to eat many meals

). Did he "punish" the girl and Mum for not hanging around to do/watch the paragliding? No. The Jones, however, seemed to just want to make the other family's life miserable in Orlando...
I like the idea of "holiday showdown", but the people on it are usually idiots...
Alice