Hmmm....Someone signed my DD out of Obama's speech.

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When I picked up DD from school today, I asked her (as always) how her day was and we had our daily after school chat. We got around to the speech and I started to ask her how it was when she asked, "You didn't send a note?" :confused: I told her I didn't and reminded her that I had previously told her I would not be sending a note. (to excuse her from the speech) She then told me that about 10 minutes after the group of kids that were excused from the speech had been escorted to the library, but before the speech started, someone came to her class and said she should have been on the list of excused students too and they needed to take her to the library. So she assumed I had called or sent an email.

I didn't and DH didn't. :confused3 I can't figure out how her name got on "the list." Yes, I did have some reservations about the original lesson plans from the DoE, but those were dealt with, so DH and I had no objections to the speech being shown to DD. For that matter, we never said word one to the school about our concerns, because we wanted to see how the dust settled before we made a decision. So we never made a peep to the school.

But someone certainly scrambled down to her room to make sure she didn't accidentally stay in class. I'm going to contact the school and tell them I'm not hot under the collar, but I'd like them to get to the bottom of why DD was on the list when we never made the request. They're usually sticklers about that sort of thing. Odd....
 
I think it was just a mistake on the part of the school. I'm sure whoever took the message probably made a mistake. It could've been someone with a similar name or any number of things. There may be a parent from you school very upset this afternoon because her dd was NOT taken out of the class when she opted out.

I'm not excusing the school or anything. I just think it was an honest mistake and there was no malice intended.
 
I'm not excusing the school or anything. I just think it was an honest mistake and there was no malice intended.
I have to agree. It is still very strange though!! :confused:
 
I think it was just a mistake on the part of the school. I'm sure whoever took the message probably made a mistake. It could've been someone with a similar name or any number of things. There may be a parent from you school very upset this afternoon because her dd was NOT taken out of the class when she opted out.

I'm not excusing the school or anything. I just think it was an honest mistake and there was no malice intended.

There is not a single kid at that school with a name anywhere close to DD's. Not our last name, not her first name. But you're right.......There is probably some parent tonight having a fit because their kid STAYED in class, while mine somehow was taken out in their place. :lmao:

I can just see the front office staff's reaction when I contact them. The school DD attends has some very....assertive....parents. The staff's eyes are going to bug out of their heads. That's why I will preface it with, "I'm not upset about this......" I'm just curious about how it happened.

I'm far more concerned about the teacher who lets them pet the rat and then doesn't have them wash their hands. :scared1:
 

As a former teacher, can I just say THANK YOU for understanding that this is not an Earth shattering mistake and taking the approach of wanting to know what happened (totally reasonable) but not wanting heads to roll for it:goodvibes Of coruse, we all expect you to post what you find out:rotfl2:
 
As a former teacher, can I just say THANK YOU for understanding that this is not an Earth shattering mistake and taking the approach of wanting to know what happened (totally reasonable) but not wanting heads to roll for it:goodvibes Of coruse, we all expect you to post what you find out:rotfl2:

I'm a former teacher too, so I have a bit of insight and empathy. ;) During the past week, we've had news crews at our school over this issue and have been featured prominently on the local and perhaps even national news. I have no idea why they picked us, except it's a new school and it photographs well. :rotfl: I said to a friend, "Don't you know the principal is holed up in her office just shaking her head and asking, 'Why ME?' What did I ever do to make them come to MY school? Why couldn't they go to _____ or ______? No, they have to come HERE. I bust my rear end and the school gets an exemplary rating every year, but do we get news crews out here for THAT? No.......THIS is what they show up for and report on!'"

You have to feel for the staff.
 
You can always have DD watch it online..
My DS15 does not start school til Friday....But i will have him watch it on the net.
It was benign... kids in the audience looked a tad bored... like any teens dragged to a school assembly...LOL

I don't mind anyone telling kids to work hard and set goals...
 
I'm sorry that happened to your DD. Our school district didn't even give the kids an option to watch it or not...they just opted not to show it. Believe me, I was livid when I picked my son up from school. I think the parents should have been given a choice of whether or not they wanted their kids to watch the speech.
 
Please don't be livid that they didn't show the speech. You can watch it/read it at home I'm sure.

Our district is not technologically capable of showing it to the entire district. We don't have tv in the classrooms and if too many computers try to do live feed, the whole system will shut down.
 
I thought about that and that's why I called the superintendent's office. I was told they recorded the speech and if the teachers decided that it fit into their curriculum, then it would be shown. None of the Santa Rosa County schools saw the speech.
 
Are you sure your DD didn't want to get out of class and be with friends?

I didn't note her age.
 
Are you sure your DD didn't want to get out of class and be with friends?

I didn't note her age.

In truth, reading in the library sounded a lot more appealing to her than listening to a presidential speech, but I told her she'd live. :rotfl: She's only 9 and they don't let them decide for themselves at that age. No, the school sent home a letter indicating we had to respond in writing if we wanted to opt out of the speech. We didn't send a note, an email and didn't even call. When the person came to the class to get her after they'd already collected all the other "opt outers", DD thought I'd had a change of heart and had sprung her from class. :lmao: Now she knows it was just dumb luck.

The only reason I'm even going to ask the school about it is so that I can make sure a mistake like this doesn't happen again.....I don't want her to get sent home on a bus or something in error.
 
Are there any other kids that LOOK like your DD? Maybe the secretary just checked her off a list and didn't look at the note thinking she knew who she was? A friend of mine's son looked JUST like our oldest when they were younger. Us MOM'S even got them mixed up. DS kept getting overdue notices from the school library for books on hockey and he hates hockey. We finally figured out that the librarian was mixing up the boys.
 
As a former teacher, can I just say THANK YOU for understanding that this is not an Earth shattering mistake and taking the approach of wanting to know what happened (totally reasonable) but not wanting heads to roll for it:goodvibes Of coruse, we all expect you to post what you find out:rotfl2:

:thumbsup2ITA! Please let us know what the mix up was.

My class (third grade) watched it, but we did have some kids in other classes who opted out (notes or phone calls to our principal.) It wasn't required as a school to watch it, and I was kind of disappointed that some of our teachers allowed their personal feelings to interfere and refused to allow their kids to watch it with other classes, even though they (and their parents) expressed an interest. But, as others have pointed out, it can be watched online at home.
 
Let us know what you find out.

Our district did not have the bandwidth to support it, so only certain classes watched it live, the rest have the option of deciding if it fits into their curriculum. While I would love to show it, it just is not appropriate for my kids (an elementary life skills room). They wouldn't get anything out of it.
 
Does anyone know if it will be televised again? Our current PC can't handle Youtube. It's on its last legs but luckily we have another on the way. I'm curious to see it now though.
 
Our school district didn't even give the kids an option to watch it or not...they just opted not to show it. Believe me, I was livid when I picked my son up from school. I think the parents should have been given a choice of whether or not they wanted their kids to watch the speech.

DH and I were upset that our girls schools weren't going to watch it. My oldest was really angry about it. We had planned on letting her skip, and DH was prepared to email the principal and tell her exactly why. DD ended up getting bronchitis so she was home sick anyway.
We gave our youngest the option of staying home to see it, but she didn't want to miss, so she watched it when she got home on the DVR.
 
I was a little upset too that our kids didn't watch it at school. I'm holding off saying anything on the off chance they are planning on watching a taped version in class sometime this week. If I say anything I don't plan on making a stink about it. I'll just let them know that I wish they had shown it to the children. Unless there were technical difficulties that made it impossible to do, I think it's a political statement to not show the president. We did have our kids watch it when they got home. For those who haven't seen it, it was a nice speech about how the grown-ups are trying to make our schools better, but it won't matter how great our schools are if the kids don't try their hardest. He talked about how he knows some of the kids have challenges, but challenges aren't a reason for failure. They're a reason to work harder to succeed. He talked about how every one of them have something great to contribute and it was up to them to do the work to make it happen.
 
I'm sorry that happened to your DD. Our school district didn't even give the kids an option to watch it or not...they just opted not to show it. Believe me, I was livid when I picked my son up from school. I think the parents should have been given a choice of whether or not they wanted their kids to watch the speech.

You have a choice:thumbsup2 Watch it at home:goodvibes
 
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