Great - appreciate the perspective. Knowing how knowledgable you are of offsite...I have to ask...If you could stay anywhere other than the WDW resorts (outside of Waldorf and Four Seasons) where would you stay - including Dolphin and Swan?
Well, we have APs and go often. So I book based on cost in hotels that are above a certain line but I rarely would spend so much it would impact another visit's budget. I have not stayed at S/D but have friends who stay there often and love it. They are teachers and get good discounts. I would gladly stay there.
Offsite I like Bonnet Creek area, have stayed in the resort often. I haven't stayed in HBC but have it's sister (basically same built at same time) = Hilton Orlando (by SeaWorld) and we love that hotel. We are also Hilton Diamond so I tend to gravitate to Hiltons. One resort I LOVED was the Rosen
Shingle Creek. Beautiful hotel, wonderful Rosen customer service and we loved the pool area often getting a cabana. It is an easy drive to all the parks.
I am returning to Embassy Suites Lake Buena Vista SOUTH in April. It's a newer one, beautifully decorated, rooms appointed well, we like getting a suite for the space and seating room. Their breakfast buffet is best of any Embassy or actually any hotel that includes it. The evening reception is a perk. The restaurant there is a nice menu with good prices. The pool is is surrounded by big wall with nice furnishings and have never experienced it very crowded, really relaxing. 10 minute drive to parks. Always have top notch service, our first visit was 9 day stay where DH joined us late after staying in Ritz Carlton Orlando all week. He said the customer service at Embassy LBVS was far better than the Ritz.
For us Orlando is park time, tourist time and our pool/hotel time is for relaxing, quiet and quick refreshing. I'm also past needing playgrounds. It really depends if you are looking for something comparable to a moderate hotel or if you want a true deluxe luxury with all the bells and whistles.