cabanafrau
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- May 10, 2006
Again -- I disagree that compliance is the only reason. But it is hilarious to me that some people are offending (mock? real?) by school IN PART teaching compliance. How unconscionable!!!
This is all beyond silly at this point.
Do you feel this way about EVERYTHING schools take on that isn't purely academic? It's the school taking over your parenting job?
My children are grown. As parents we made raising our children a priority. A very important component was teaching them about their place in the world, the function rules serve in making it possible for lots of people to coexist -- and the kind of rules it's important to understand are never okay to be required. The schools never had a reason to complain about my precious little darlings creating any issues with their classmates or staff. They even managed to apply themselves to their studies. We taught respect for selves and respect for others -- along with empathy and compassion. Foolishly we thought that would get the job done.
Clearly we set them up for a life of pajama wearing (the more revealing the better naturally), inability to comply with rules or be employed. Guess I should inform my eldest's employer and the market her younger sister is working part-time at while still in college. Obviously they need to be informed their seemingly satisfactory employees weren't properly brought up by the schools.