On the BBB thing...
Wanted to say that we had some little girls in our family who wanted to do the whole princess thing when they were here.
We bought them princess dresses (the complete outfit) elsewhere (yes, they were Disney dresses, but were considerably less expensive than buying them on property) and did their hair ourselves. They don't much like people fussing with their hair. Plus, we hate that tight, skinned back look those poor little girls have coming out of BBB.
All that to say, for the fraction of the cost these little girls had "the look" and were just as "show stopping" as those who paid the high cost.
Actually, these little girls looked nicer.

Their hair was done for their faces, and not assembly line turn them out. Several little girls and their mothers asked where they'd been to get their hair done.
Anyway, all that to say, you can have your child "done up" for a fraction of the cost if you are able to do it yourself.
Now, our little guy? Spent the bank on him when he was made over for Jack!

(But it was a gift...).