Hi,
Good advice, Angy! But I don't know if not looking for love actually works for me; it seems that it doesn't happen either way.
But because I have tried to force relationships to happen, the three relationships I've had in my life have had serious flaws, whether it was her dissatisfaction with me, or mine with her.
Now, not only am I not in a relationship, but I haven't had a date in more than six months. I think I've reached a point where I'm content with my solitude. On one hand, I would like to be with a woman who loves me for me; but on the other, with my history I'm not sure if I want to be with anyone. [Surrounds himself with construction cones]
Jim