This worked really well for us.
I did a lot of research and my boys knew what they wanted to see, what parks they wanted to frequent etc. But I realized that once we got there we'd be lost in all the excitement. We were on the
free dining plan and had to be sure and make our ADRs, and it was our first trip to DW so were a bit overwhelmed.
I did a word document and listed what we were planning for each day. Not real set-in-stone stuff but a basic plan of attack. Then I cut them up into basically 3x5 index cards and took one card for each day. When the day was over I could just toss that day's plan and move on to the next. Each night we read the schedule for the next day so that we could prepare, each morning on the bus we reviewed the upcoming day's plan. The kids didn't really fight over what we were going to do because they became pretty focused on "sticking to the plan". (They had helped me devise the plan to begin with...so it was "their plan" and we were stickin' to it!) On the 5th day we had an open schedule all afternoon and it was son number one's choice. HE decided what we'd do and we all had to follow. Son number two got the next afternoon at his discretion. They both looked forward to the afternoon that they would be in charge.
Anyway, a typical day's index card went something like this, and we would add notes on the back if we wanted to remember to do or see something:
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TUESDAY
MAGIC KINGDOM OPENS EARLY TODAY! WAKE UP AT 6:45!
Lunch - Cosmic Rays Tomorrowland or Harbor House near Haunted Mansion.
Afternoon maybe a pool break? Remember to call Grandma before 6pm
EVENING AT EPCOT
Dinner is TEPPANYAKI at 7:30pm. Conf#4037126 (Can watch Illuminations afterwards from the Japan terrace.)
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