Help with my new "bff"

[StitchfansJr]

At school there's a girl named Allie (Small world isn't it?) Anyway, I'm her new bff. I don't care if we're friends..She DESTROYED my yearbook with that "I heart u! Allie rox ur sox!" stuff on it. My mom is kinda mad at me for letting her do that. I tried to tell her to stop, but she wouldn't. My other friends don't like her. If I say "can you please lay off the bff stuff?" she'll cry. She crys at the drop of a hat. Help!

 

[patchesmommy]

just let her go!

she has NO reason to cry about that. If your not happy and dont wat to be friends with her just say bye to her and move on.

 

[StitchfansJr]

just let her go!

she has NO reason to cry about that. If your not happy and dont wat to be friends with her just say bye to her and move on.

I try to, but she keep on following me. I'm the person who's friends with EVERYONE no matter what. I can't take being "everyone's" friend anymore.

 

[patchesmommy]

^ Im the same way at my school

just tell them to stop!

 

[BabyPiglet]

It's the end of the year just tell her to...(ahem) leave you alone.

I absolutely hate people like that. I can't take any OMG WE'RE BFFS, type of stuff. I used to have "friends" like that, I couldn't stand them.

I mean it's cool if you want to be real close friends with me, I'd love that, but don't go rambling about how we're BFF's and how we're going to have a slumber party.

 

[StitchfansJr]

I just won't talk to her. Tomorrow's my last day of school. My friends NEVER invite me to anything. Only thing I'll be doing is my sleepover for my birthday. And I'm not gonna invite Allie. I'll just invite my friends that aren't like "OMG WE'RE BFF!!"

 

[AngienLuLu]

If you don't want to be friends with her anymore, just stop talking to her. Cold turkey. Even if she follows you around and talks to you, don't make eye contact. And don't say a word to you. If she asks you what's wrong, you have to make a personal decision of whether or not you're going to tell her. But like I said, "ignore" her. I know it will be hard, but I have had to do it before. It's rough at first, but she'll get the hint eventually.

 

[BabyPiglet]

Or she'll call you 500 times and stalk you.

But yeah, it eventually works. Especially if you confront them with it after you've ignored them for a while. Then they get all mad and storm off.

But really, if you want her off your back try what Angie said.

 

[AngienLuLu]

Or she'll call you 500 times and stalk you.
But yeah, it eventually works. Especially if you confront them with it after you've ignored them for a while. Then they get all mad and storm off.
But really, if you want her off your back try what Angie said.

I love it when people call me that. But no one does because my brother married an "Angela" also, but we call her Angie so things don't get confusing. With two Angela's running around, it gets pretty crazy.

 

[BabyPiglet]

Wow. Thank Gawd there's only one Jenny in my family.

 

[pigletgirl]

Oh boy, I've had that happen to me too. Its incredibly annoying.

Tell her about how what she's doing is bothering you. If she's really your good friend, she'll stop, if not, then tell her she'll need to find anther friend. I know that sounds harsh, but thats the way it has to be done.

 

[EeyoreFan1]

Or she'll call you 500 times and stalk you.

But yeah, it eventually works. Especially if you confront them with it after you've ignored them for a while. Then they get all mad and storm off.

But really, if you want her off your back try what Angie said.

I wonder where you've heard that before.

 

[BabyPiglet]

I can't imagine.

 

[StitchfansJr]

I'm glad she hasn't called me-yet.

 

[MuNkY]

OMG! Inbd.

 

[MadameLeota]

Agh I've always hated the whole girly-BFF-slumberparty-giggleallnightlong thing...it doesn't just end in highschool unfortunately.

There's this girl that I used to be friends with who would be so angry with me if I decided to go spend time with my boyfriend or another friend or stay at home for once.

It's dumb...but some people are like that...needy and whatnot...

Ignore calls...if she won't stop calling you change the phone number...it works! lol

 

[MuNkY]

When you tell your friend they're going to be like...

T-I-S-N-F!

 

[tinkerbell12]

When you tell your friend they're going to be like...

T-I-S-N-F!

Then Allison'll be like 'Well me putting up with you, that's what's... S-N-F!!!'



Talk to her about it.
A lot easier said then done but do it.
DO IT!

 

[Babyjustrun]

I hope you realize, if she were your 'bff', she wouldn't ruin your yearbook.
And you probably would forgive her for what she did.
And she'd apologize.

Crying, is also how you get people to 'pity you'. It's kind of like saying 'I'm fat' so you can get attention. Fishing for compliments, but in this case, is your forgiveness.

 

[CheezDoodle]

I feel really bad for her. It seems to me that she has no other friends. You should just be nice to her, but don't let her get a hold of your things. Because even though I wouldn't ruin someone's stuff, my friends probably tell people how annoying I am and how I'm always following them around. It's hard for some people to make friends.