We are also a family of five. I just cannot give up my verandah! It is why I cruise . .. I can just stare at the turquoise waters forever... it's when I'm truly in my happy place! Our first three cruises , we had the deluxe family verandah , plenty of room , and especially on the Fantasy , the set up was even roomier. This, our fourth, cruise we booked two rooms: a Navigators verandah and a standard inside room with magical porthole on the Dream. I think it will be the best of all worlds! It was a few hundred dollars more, but my husband really wanted the two bathrooms , and I got my verandah! My advice for you would be to do the same or just go with the Verandah room.... it's your first cruise . ... it'll really be worth it! Just my two cents! Either way , have the best time!!