OK - couldn't resist responding to this thread. Planning for Disney is almost as much fun as going! I am sure some of these things have been mentioned.
Ideas
*Yes on the Value Resorts - We loved it and it is worth every dime! POP for us.
*Packed over the shoulder small bags for the kids. Found these at garage or dollar stores. Everyday I would surprise them by packing Disney themed snacks - Cars crackers, princess gummies, Hannah Montana raisins (Wal Mart and Kroger were great for these)! Then I also put in a surprise - Disney pez dispensers, stickers, small bottles of bubbles for lines, etc. Very inexpensive and they loved looking in their bags every morning.
*Ate in our room every morning except when reservations (wouldn't necessarily do the TS again to save money).
*Bought Disney themed T shirts at garage sales, thrift stores or discount places so they had an outfit for everyday. I got some for as low as 25 cents and they looked great!
*Design your own Disney clothes. We made some awesome things - Mickey head pants, Princess jeans, etc. Bought jeans from thrift shop and then did them up!
*Counter service meals for kids under 10 can definitely be split! I don't know that I would pay for extra for that.
*We may try this this time - rent a locker and then put a collapsible cooler inside with sandwiches, chips, etc to have lunch on your own. Very big money saver!
*Bought a Disney themed digital camera for our daughter for her birthday - it comes with Disney software so you can put cute frames around the pic. She loved it and it costs $30! Fit perfectly inside her bag.
*Refillable water is great in the parks - there are water fountains everywhere. I bought one that filters - the water there doesn't taste good - and we shared one bottle. That was what my husband carried. It was $10 I think from CVS or Eckerd's.
*If little ones then take time to get Character autographs and you won't need the TS Character meals. Get a Mickey waffle on Main Street early one morning and then spend some time getting characters signatures. Saves a lot of money and just as yummy!
*Pack lunches for the ride down and put Disney movies on the portable DVD. That will make it fun for the kids and you on the long drive down. You will probably be too excited to sleep anyway!
*This is a biggie if you have a little girl - Bring lots of hairspray, glitter and colored spray - dollar store - and do your own princess hairstyles! Noone had said this to me and I was thinking while there how much fun my daughter would have had to do this even if it was just she and I!
*Have the kids save all their birthday money, chore money, etc and buy their own souvenirs. My kids had Disney Dollars we bought at the
Disney store and that was it for them. They didn't get anything unless they paid for it out of those dollars. It was perfect. Really made them decide what was important. One went home with a huge
Lego set and the other with Cinderella's castle because they felt it was worth it to save their money for that than to spend it on trinkets. Worked out perfectly! You could do the same with special snacks so that way they decide what is really important for them to have.
*Gas wise - it may not be as horrible as you think as it will be highway miles mostly which means better gas mileage. You won't even use your car once there - the transportation is great.
Your real savings are in your additional money you plan on spending. We made it clear to our kids that going was such a privilege that we had to work all year just to go. I have never seen so much change go into that bucket! It was such a great learning experience.
Hope it all works out for you. It is such an amazing vacation and worth it to find all the ways to make it possible without going into debt!