When are you planning to go?
If you are planning to go during winter time, you are not sure that you are going to use pool that much. If so, pool is not in your factor. are you thinking about renting a car? if so, transportation problem will be easier.
All disney resorts are great and kids friendly. I usually weigh on another factor like season, transportation, and of course budget.
If none of those points are in your concern, get planning DVD from Disney and watch the resort section with your family. I am sure that they have some resort matching to your family's "taste".
I also had same dilennma for upcoming trip in January. I showed my kids and my wife the DVD. Suprisingly, they chose POR. It was not my taste but kids and wife fell in love with the kind of nature/wood theme. I also showed WL because they are similar theme but they liked "motel" type resort instead of one big building type resort. the planning part is fun part of your trip. Enjoy!