We are WDW veterans and I could plan any trip, on any budget there to a "T". My DH now travels out to the west coast and we just did our first real family vacation in DLR this past October. (We were there one other time when our older two were very little and it was a two day business trip.)
It was a blast. We so loved it! I have to say a lot was in part that I researched everything well beforehand so that I could be prepared and know what to expect. It is a very different experience than WDW. It is very hard to compare the two directly. DLR has so much of its own charm to it.
To Plan: Budget is a relative term...you would need to research what is in your price range, and then research the hotels within that category. Also, there are trade-offs to price, such as ammenities, location, etc.
I would definately look at pricing things out separate rather than a package. We went with a package, and I only saved about $150 when it was all said and done, which is a nice amount, but I hoped on several occasions I had the flexibility I wanted and didn't have.
We ended up staying at the
Disneyland Hotel and yes, it is expensive! But we were going for the total Disney experience and we were so happy we did! It was awesome!
For more in the moderate (for Calif! sheesh! everything is so $$$$!!!)
my DH loves the Marriott Courtyard Anaheim Disneyland Resort. We priced it out for the 2nd week in June and it is $169 a night. It is 2 blocks from DLR within a good walking distance to the parks and has a nice pool. It has bunk bed rooms for the kids.
The food at the parks is not like WDW. There are fewer choices and sorry, DLR, just not as good. There are some good finds if you research what your tastes are. Sharing meals is definately the way to go, bringing your own snacks and waters, etc. (Micky Bars are $4.00!) Many restaurants are accomodating with food allergies/restrictions/special diets. My one DD has a severe peanut/tree nut allergy and we were accomodated very nicely.
Downtown Disney restaurants were very expensive and we had long lines and waits but the food was good and they were good with food restrictions as well. There are a lot of good off-site places...MiMi's is our favorite. We wento to a store beforehand and stocked up on drinks, snacks and breakfast items.
This is an awesome place to ask questions and get info., also allearsnet.com is a great website. I researched from the books: Passporter Disneyland Resort and SoCal Attractions, The Unofficial Guide Disneyland 2007 and Disneyland and SoCal with Kids (Fodor's ). You can get these books from a library or read for an afternoon at Barnes and Noble or the like (I did both).
There is so much to see and do in SoCal, but if you are true Disney fans, there IS enough to do there for 4-5 days with younger kids and tickets get cheaper with the more days you add on.
If you have any specific questions, or need ideas, just ask, you will get a lot of info here!