I'm a single mom and this is my second year in a row I'm pulling off Disney World. Here is what I did, most people have already suggested these though. Cancel everything that is not a need. Any subscriptions you have to things that can be canceled, cancel them. I didn't cut tv completely but I did go down to basic. I've given up manis and pedis (not that I'm much of that kinda girl but the 2 a year I might have done before I stopped). I slashed eating out, started taking lunches to work, unplug electrical items you're not using, every holiday or birthday my daughter has asked for Disney gift cards for her spending money (she's buying her own
MNSSHP ticket and she's 8), I stopped buying junk at the grocery store and stuck with sale items and stopped going to the theater to see movies and instead did iTune rentals as a splurge when there was something we were waiting to see. I sat down with my daughter and had a talk with her about saving and deciding each time she had a want did she want that item more, or a week at WDW. Every time the answer was WDW. I have a jar that I wrote Princess Savings Plan on the outside of and every week I made a cash deposit into it for spending money. Then I set up a savings acct just for Disney and every payday put at least 5% in. I also used the Mint app, it's very cool and keeps you in a savings plan and shows you where your money is going. I also used a good portion of my tax return. I also honestly can't tell you the last time I bought new clothes for myself because I'd rather make memories than impress the other moms or my co-workers with my hot new boots.
When you sit down and get cut throat you'll find there's a lot you can do without that isn't that painful to cut. I've paid for last years trip and my trip for next month in cash.
Southwest always seems to have an awesome sale every year in the May/June time frame as well. I also pull my kid out of school to go during low season and
free dining (HUGE money saver). Yeah, I'm that mom.
I have taken one year to save for each trip and the bonus along the way is that my kid has learned valuable savings lessons. She scolds me if I forget to turn out a light now. It's been a great learning lesson for her that I think may stick for a lifetime, it's taught her responsibility and its been our own little family project.
Sure, we can only afford to stay at a value but when you've worked hard all year to pull it off together as a family project, and do it in all cash so you're not left with vacation debt, that value resort feels like a deluxe.