To me, the biggest advantage of not being on the DDP is flexibility. The DDP is not valid for all places in WDW, and if I paid for the DDP I would want it to cover all my food.
Without the DDP, I'm "free" to call Giordano's for delivery, or drive to Fuddrucker's, or eat at the Spoodles pizza window...
I'm happy for the DDP, it opened me up to more Disney dining experiences, Although to me, the 08 changes (no gratuity, and to a lesser extent appetizer) ruined it for me I liked to worry about no bill, I do not want to still worry about a tip on a pre-paid plan. Now I'm a happy DDE/TIW user!
Actually, there are more places onsite that use the DP then the TIW card as you can only use the TIW card at a few CS places, but you can use DP at almost all CS places. Also, there are several major exclusions with TIW: blackout dates, holiday surcharges are applicable and several major restaurants such as Tokyo Dining and Teppan Edo do not participate in TIW program. It seems most DVCers tend to favour the TIW card, but in many cases, it might not be the best savings, and so a careful look at menus and snacks is important when trying to make that decision. The other thing is the cost of the card and auto gratuity to consider.
We have used DDE/TIW several times now, but since we have a child age 3-9 (our baby is still free), we find a bigger savings with the DP over the TIW card. We just did extensive spreadsheets (we only order what we could eat, so we did an apples to apples comparison) and the DP is going to give us a several hundred dollar savings over the TIW card. Since we prefer TS over CS, and normally eat 2 TS meals per day, we like the DxDP, but since we also do split stays, we do a combo DxDP and DP and spread them out over days (eg. 9 night stay = 10 days of eating), as well as eat at least 1 Signature restaurant.
I honestly think if you have 'adult' kids and drink alcohol, then TIW may be the biggest savings (although it depends when you go as holiday meal surcharges could be applicable), but for us, we find that the dining plans are a bigger savings, especially with snacks included.
It's great that Disney gives us so many choices, but for each family, it so much depends upon a bunch of variables as to which eating program is best for your family's needs at that time!
Sorry OP, I can't talk you into not doing the DP as I think it isn't as easy as a yes or no answer. Good luck making your decision.
Happy eating to all, Tiger
