help i think my b/f hates me

[disneymaniacgirl]

help me someone please i just called my b/f and sister answered and said he wasnt home, but i heard him in the back ground talking. and yesterday his sister told me that he always goes over to his friends house just to see his friends sister. help me im like having a mental break down.

 

[AbErGrl217]

I would confront him. Maybe theres a reason as to why he isnt talking to you. Maybe something happend that he is not comfortable with.

 

[disneymaniacgirl]

i did confront him and you know what he did? he broke up with me i've been in a miserable mood ever since he did that. ahhhhhh someone help me please. i still need help cause i love him soooooooooooo much that i need him and want him. how could i get him back.

 

[teh fish]

um, there's no use trying to force a relationship if one person doesn't want one.

 

[StitchGirl88]

i agree with teh fish. there is no point to try to fix it if one person doesn't want it but maybe he might just want to cool off for while
give it a while maybe he'll come around and want you back but don't let him get you down. just like a person said there is no guy to cry over and the ones there is he don't make you cry. or something like that.

 

[disneymaniacgirl]

ok i'll try and calm down a bit but i love him soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much i guess that there is no point of trying to get him back like u guys say if one of us dont want it and the other does.

 

[teh fish]

just a note: I wasn't trying to be heartless or anything.

You may love someone so much, but then you find out they don't return your love. You can't do anything about it; can't make them like you. All you can do is move on.

 

[StitchGirl88]

yeah me too i don't want to sound rude either

 

[disneymaniacgirl]

i wasnt trying to make it sound like you were tryin to be rude sorry if thats how it sounded but im better now cause we made up and he is just tryin to catch up on his work and when hes done we are going to go back out. but right now we are friends with "benefits"

 

[StitchGirl88]

that is good to hear that you are worling out your differences and getting back together.

 

[teh fish]

i don't really like "friends with benefits". It just seems one of the partners doesn't want a relationship but wants all the good things that happen within relationships.