In the past, I've done several brunch showers. Some of the things I've had (not necessarily at the same time

): Spiral sliced ham, egg strata with ham or sausage (great because you make it the night before, ginger lime chicken salad, mini hot ham and cheese sandwiches(again you make the night before), reuban casserole, add a nice fruit salad or platter with fruit dip, cheese and crackers, or homemade mac and cheese or homemade scallop potatoes and you are about set. Below, I'll include the hot ham and cheese recipe because it's sooo easy and everyone raves about it and they are actually very pretty because the rolls glisten. Good luck!
Mini Hot Ham And Cheese Sandwiches
2 packs of mini dinner roll (Martins potato rolls)
1 lb. Of chipped ham, I use tavern or honey
¾ lb. Of swiss cheese sliced thin
2 sticks of butter
2T of worchestershire sauce
2 T of spicy deli mustard
2 T poppy seeds
4 T brown sugar
Bring above to boil (not ham, cheese or rolls of course)
Slice open rolls and fill with ham and one slice of cheese close. Put in dish with lip. Stir sauce and pour over sandwiches. Bake at 350 t ill cheese melts. Watch carefully so rolls do not get crusty.